i dont know why but why do boys always opt for a good lokking girl even for freindship???
2006-09-01 05:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by Truly Madly Deeply 5 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Remember "good looking" is subjective...what's good looking to one person, may not be to another.
Having said that, you'll find that the good looking issue often changes somewhat as the boys mature. At a young age there is such peer pressure about everything, even who you spend time with, that many kids (guys and girls) will cave to that and try to act and surround themselves with those they think their peer group will approve of, or even admire them for.
Looks have nothing to do with personality and heart though...and as these young people grow up and learn more about others and what is important in a friend, a boy or gilfriend, etc...they also learn that a pretty outside isn't really "all that"...especially if the inside isn't just as pretty...
2006-09-01 06:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you know the wrong men. I know many are like it but that's just the way it is. Maybe it's cause they will get hassle from their mates or something. The point is these kind of people are shallow and therefore not worth worrying over. The fact is there are many men out there who like girls for who they are and not what they look like.
Believe me I have met both types. In fact I went out with one (complete idiot) for over 2 years before I realised, the joke is he was not exactly a looker either.
The thing is as time goes on you will spot the idiots from the real men a lot more quickly and laugh at how pathetic the losers really are. Ultimately looks fade and waist lines get bigger as we age and they will be left with fat ugly women who have the personality of a tinned pea!!
Moral of the story? Don't waste time worrying about it, the more you think about it the more it is a problem, the less you worry the more likely you will find men who are interesting, funny and a dam site more fun than the shallow losers who plague the planet
believe me, I'm the one laughing at my ex as he lost out big time, my guy (a new and very much improved model) makes me feel a million dollars even first thing in the morning when I am not so pretty!!!
2006-09-01 12:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hellacool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, boys are shallow, immature, idiots!!! Don't get me wrong but some boys are very sweet but a lot are shallow. Some remain that way but a lot grow out of it. I have a lot of guy friends and all of them are really really sweet. But as far as finding your soul mate, you need to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince! Be patient cuz some day he's gonna come. As far as all boys go, treat them like a normal person even though they don't act like one. Well good luck with your boy problem (if you have one. I'm not sure since I don't really know you but if you don't sorry).
2006-09-01 12:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Court Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely I believe a boy can opt for a dark complexioned, fat or a girl wearing spectacles, only the girl should be kind hearted and good natured.
2006-09-01 13:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by ishaagarwall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the worst is-girls are just the opposite...they resent beautiful friends and/or girls they don't even know on the street. I caught girls staring at beautiful girls from tip to toe and their eyes are obviously filled with hatred.
2006-09-01 13:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why, and it is sad. Don't dispair though. Be yourself and always be positive and have a good attitude. Beauty will eventually wear off and grow old. A good outlook and positive attitude is yours forever.
2006-09-01 12:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are idiots who sees physical appearance only, but sorry you're not cute baby just work on your personality.
2006-09-01 12:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 'N' Box 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men r just like dat. visual creatures.watever dat is pleasing to da eye they just love to look and its all about making them look good and feed their ego..but i do wonder sumtimes whether they look in da mirror long enough to see wats up.:)
2006-09-01 12:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by lady_sprano_n7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so that they can attract even more good looking girls for dating... case of like attracting like by induction
2006-09-01 12:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by cats meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause they r shallow pigs! they see women as meat they can chew on!
2006-09-01 12:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋