ok well ive been dateing him for about a month right......but now he keeps talking about sex.....and im not sure if i want to yet.....and i care about him a whole lot but if i told him i didn't want to im afraid he will break up with me for someone who will.......so what should i do??
2006-09-01 05:03:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LET HIM BREAK UP WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T..............., MORE THAN LIKELY HE WILL BREAK UP WITH YOU BECAUASE YOU DID.
2006-09-01 05:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy talks about sex really soon in a relationship...it's because that's ALL he wants. At least he's letting you know early, so you can make an informed decision.
And why would you want to be with a guy who'll break up with cause you're not having sex with him and find someone who will??? I mean come on...that makes absolutely no sense.
2006-09-01 05:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you are not yet prepared to do..
Yes, he may break up with you to find another who will.. But eventually,,, he will admire your courage and he will really come back to you if he loves you... Then both of you can have a lasting relationship,, and not only because of sex.
If he will not come back... then he is not worth it... There are still so many guys out there who should I say can wait until marriage before sex..
2006-09-01 05:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you because of that, he never cared in the first place and you'll be glad you didn't share your body with someone undeserving. Value yourself enough to wait until you're ready. If he is that shallow....best to let him go. Probably not what you want to hear, but I'm truly thinking of whats best for you hon! Best wishes!
2006-09-01 05:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Joeygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt say how old you were but you sound very young and if a guy would break up with you for not wanting to have sex he is definitely not someone you want to be with anyway. definitely dont do anything just bc you feel pressured to. when the time is right you will know, dont do anything until then.
2006-09-01 05:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by domsmom701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do what you feel comfortable doing. If you are not ready and you don't love him, it's not worth it. If he breaks up with you for not having sex with him then you are better off without him. You are probably young and there are other guys out there that will respect your choices.
2006-09-01 05:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by XiE18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he breaks up with you because you would not have sex with him, then sex is all he wanted from you, not you. Explain your feelings to him calmly. If he won't listen or understand, dump him for someone who will. You may like him, but you can find other, more sympathetic men. Sex should be a mutually desired and pleasurable experience. You won't enjoy it if it is just to please him.
2006-09-01 05:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Kukla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he breaks up with u because u wont have sex he doesnt love u, and u deserve better than that !!!!! if u r not ready dont do it and wait until u find someone that makes u comofortable
2006-09-01 05:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you why would he break up with you over something as trivial as sex. just tell him your not ready yet but you still really like him and maybe later on in your relationship you'll have sex. if he really likes you than he'll understand, if not, good riddance to bad rubbish
2006-09-01 05:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say you care about him if he really cared about you he will wait until u are ready you may have heard this before but its true
2006-09-01 05:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel and if he cares about you he will respect your decision and if he gets mad and tries to pressure you into it then he's not worth your time anyway find somebody who will respect how you feel
2006-09-01 05:09:06 · answer #11 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋