how can unterstand my husbands feelings?

Question

mai apnay husband kay feeling ko samajte hu par woh keahtay hai mujhay kise bhi baat ka ehsaas nahi hai par mai dil say unhay love karte hu par woh hamsha mujhay misunderstand kartay hai

Answer 1

WTF?

Answer 2

Maybe if you could understand English, you might be able to understand other people. But if this is the case where you are writing in an actual language, you may need to translate if you want answers from an English speaking population.

Also a man also has feelings and thoughts like a woman. They really are not from another planet, unlike someone else that I'm not quite so sure on.

Answer 3

Honey, I think you are on the wrong Yahoo! Answers forum. I am not sure which language this is, but go to the one which speaks this language, that way you can understand what the answers are better.

With this said, I will say that the key to understanding anyone is truly listening to them. Learning what they like and don't like is all about communication and openness in a relationship. Learn what his bounderies are and respect them. Learn what is important to him and what isn't. Talk with him and be open about your own feelings.

Tell him how much you love him and how important he is to you. Tell him you want to please him and know him better. That you can only do this if he is willing to talk with you. Tell him you don't want to fight with him or misunderstand him, and you don't want him to misunderstand you either. Tell him you are committed to him and this marriage and you want to have it healthy and full of love and companionship. That you want to be his friend and his wife, as well as the mother of his children.

Find ways to praise him, to tell him what a great man he is, tell him how he is a great husband, a great father, a good lover. You can do these things in suble ways, by waiting for the right moments. For example, when he talks about his work really listen to him and tell him you think he did this or that very well. use your own wording, but praise him and let him know you think highly of him. Men like their woman to believe they are good at their jobs. Men feel good when their woman says "Honey, that was the best, you made me feel so good!!". You can listen and praise him much each day. The more he feels he has your esteem, that you think highly of him, that you are proud of him as a man, a husband, a father, a lover, the more he will be able to find the same appreciation for you and the more he will be willing to really listen to you in return, the more he will treat you with respect too.

It is not difficult to praise your man once you begin practicing this. It gets easier the more you do it. Listening gets easier too the more you do it. It is important for you to communicate that he is the best man around, that you have great pride in him. This will increase his self esteem and allow him to treat you more gently too. Just begin finding small and large things you can praise him for, that you can tell him how important he is too you, that you think highly of him in this regard or that regard. Listen to him and praise him every chance you get. He will them be more likely to do the same with you. Don't fight with him. Walk away. He will treat you how you allow him to treat you. If you walk away from fights he will learn you will not fight with him. He will learn you will listen to him but not fight him. Men and women both usually like living in peace, not in an atagonistic household. Find ways to bring peace to your household. Not fighting is a start. Praising him is also a big part of this.

I wish you great success in your marriage and much happiness always, Blessed Be.

Answer 4

uuhhhh this is the united states page!
all i understood were:

husband
feeling
love
misunderstand

you need to sit and talk with your husband about this. tell him you are having dificulties understanding his feelings. you two are married and should understand eachother like no other person. so try really hard to understand him. maybe he is going through some tuff times and is stressed and maybe thats why his feelings are all over the place. make sure you talk to him and get things straightened out.

Answer 5

kisi aur ko samajhne ke liye pehle khud ko samajhna zarroori hai, insaan ka dimaag hamesha apne bhavana ko hi staphna karte hai, lekin haqeeqat kuch aur hi hota hai, is liye, hum humesha apni tatrah se sochte hai, is liye pehle khud ko samajhne ki koshis ki jiye tabhi unhe samajh payenge.

Answer 6

I don't understand the question, well I understand the question its the additional information I got lost on.

But if you really want to understand your husbands feelings, listen to what he says and understand that if he says he hurts or feels good or is depressed then he is, it is not just his imagination.

Answer 7

namaste i am sorabh
kisi ko dil se pyar karna ki kafi nahi hai pahle mai app se cahoga ke app opposit sex ko samze. we axcpect the opposite sex to be more like our selves. women mistakenly expect men to feel communicate and respond the way women do without a clear awareness of our difference.

suppose ap agar tensan me hai to ap apne partner se is bare me bat karna chage but man are different agar woh kisi tensan me hai to woh us tensan se apna dyan hatana chage eska liye woh tv dekge newspaper padge ya koi bhi aisa kam jisse unka dyan bate aise me agar ap us tensan ke bare me puchage so he wii angry.
second app asli pareshani ko samzene ki koshish kare kai bar pareshani woh nahi hoti jo app samaz rahi hai is wajah se app ne suna ke app ko kisi bat ka ehsaas nahi hai.app feelings ko ek admi ke najariyes dekhe to app apne husbend ki feelings ko achi tarah samaz paigi.
app jitna pyar upne husband se karte hai utna hi pyar dil se woh bhi app se karte hoge par woh app se kahega nahi becouse the diffrence of opposit sex.
agar meri kahi koi bat app ko bure lagi to mai mafi chaoga. agar ap apna question achi tarah describe karke mujhe mail kare to mujhe kuchi hogi or maih ek ache dost ki tarah apki parashani ka hal dodne mein ap ki madad karoga.
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Answer 8

Whatever translation tool you are using.... get a new one!

Answer 9

just talk openly and observe his actions

Answer 10

by good relationship.

Answer 11

Dont understand the question.............sorry :(