2006-09-01 04:55:55 · 24 answers · asked by Rose... 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Depends on your perceptions.....
2006-09-01 04:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would completely be up to you... Here are some helpful hints on how to get started..
1) Love your self, enjoy spending time alone.. Get to know you.
2) Write down what it is your are looking for in a female lover.
3) Write down what your long term goals are. Own house, get married someday, kid, no kid, etc..
4) Keep working on resolving your baggage you have now why you are single... Make sure you can be with someone because you want to be with them.. Not because you need them.
5) Just date until you get to know them (6 months) During this time Ask them questions 2 and 3 and see if they are capable of 1 and 4.
Your perfect love will not be perfect, this is not a movie. Make sure she is willing to work through and storm that may come your way (live challenges). Make sure she is someone who makes you laugh otherwise it wont be a fun ride.
And last but not least....... Watch for all the RED FLAGS listen to your gut instinks your a woman damn it. I'm tired of seeing us in F*$Kd up relationships because we didn't pay attention in the beginning and now your stuck... Take your time your talking about your future here..
2006-09-01 13:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone is perfect. I do hope you find love though. Some people go there whole life without being in love. Fortunately for me I expierence being in Love about 6 times. It will happen when the time is right so be patient it will come.
2006-09-01 15:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the perfect female lover does not exist but there are many out there who would suit you. Relax so you can be yourself and she'll turn up when you least expected it.
2006-09-01 23:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Langdon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by taking care of yourself!
fall completely madly in love with yourself, i guarantee you sweetie it's the best feeling in the whole world. You will totally glow and the world WILL notice. The perfect lover will find you while you're busy loving yourself. I promise :)
2006-09-01 15:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking, you might set yourself up or you could be expecting the perfect one when in return, it probably isn't. I have done this. Just have a good time with friends and let time take it's course.
2006-09-01 12:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No; if you search for perfection, you will never find it. It is when you do not expect perfection that someone will seem perfect to you.
2006-09-01 12:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's perfect!
2006-09-01 11:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you try you may. Some people never do. But as long as you have hope keep looking and be on guard. You never know when you'll meet her.
2006-09-01 12:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ones perfect...male or female...
2006-09-01 13:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by bandaidgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah there is a lover for everyone
2006-09-01 11:58:31 · answer #11 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋