I have been divorced for 4years and 1 year later my ex asked if we could work thing out and I Dum said ok.Wel just 2 weeks ago he moved out
and now he wont help with anything that my kids I need I have alread have talk to someone about childsuport so now i have to just see what happen with that.
2006-09-01 04:33:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cos you shared many things with him and besides ,there are the kids which make your life linked to him. Besides the memory, you had many facilities being married that you have to give up now. But be strong, i knoe that a divorced woman is weak if she doesn't have financial support but you'll work it out. Just believe in your skills, keep yourself busy and work hard. The first years are the most difficlt ones. But you'll find another man who will help you for sure.
2006-09-01 04:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 22 years previous. you have rather some existence earlier to you, maximum of which would be great. the terrific suggestion i could have is discover somebody to talk to. no count if that be a professional or not (you likely think of this might nicely be a bad thought, yet you would be shocked how useful it rather is). As you communicate and articulate what's happening around you, you will discover the answer to your quandary your self. you may desire to in no way question your prefer to stay. think of of each and every of the folk who you would be affecting, even though if it does not look like it in the previous each and every thing. i understand that suicide is a compelling concept at circumstances whilst each and every thing seems to be like going incorrect, yet you may additionally be shocked at how functional the suicide hotline is (i realize it rather is in keeping with risk undesirable suggestion, yet they are there to help and that they do their jobs nicely) try your terrific to be certain the terrific factors of existence, even though if it variety of feels like there is not plenty. human beings love you and this hard time on your existence is largely a try which you may desire to tutor your self with the aid of. stable good fortune, and that i actually choose you the terrific :)
2016-11-23 17:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO, girl. You go get yourself an attorney and get that child support going. HE helped you make those kids so he has a responsibility to HELP take care of them. Then move on with your life. If you did nothing wrong in the relationship then he does not deserve you and DON'T ever go back to him!
2006-09-01 04:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it so hard to find life after marriage?
B strong. B the single mother. End his relation with the kids if he does not help with ur economy. Find someone that can fits u.
2006-09-01 04:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by myid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know why because youre afraid to let it go.Some people can easily adjust to situation and some just cant.One way to to beat it is just to be realistic and think that life must go on, but up until then you wouldnt realize that life is better off without a nagging partner after all.
2006-09-01 04:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by silly colie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! I WAS DIVORCED FOR ONE YEAR AND LET HIM COME BACK AND HE WAS BACK FOR ABOUT 2 YRS AND NOW WE ARE DIVORCE AGAIN........AND I AM KEEPING IT THAT WAY AND I HAVE 2 KIDS AND YOU ARE RGHT IT IS HARD TO FIND TIME FOR A LIFE E-MAIL ME IF YA EVER WANT TO JUST TALK! preciousprincess1969@yahoo.com IT HELPS SOME TIMES TO HAVE SOMEONE OTHER THAN FAMILY TO TALK TOO GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2006-09-01 04:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by preciousprincess1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking back, take stock of your life, and move forward. Go back to school, change jobs, join some groups...just don't isolate yourself and become a bitter victim.
2006-09-01 04:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, yeah you can go in to child support in the phone book in the Goverment page.. and it will tell you what you need to do. all you do is fill it out and everything and they can help you and make sure that he pay for it...
Yeah Your ex really stupid and he can go around 4 years with other women and then come back with yoiu and then moved out again. wow. really man of him...
so yeah.. it better and safe smile.
2006-09-01 04:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO CHANGE UP THE CYCLE THAT YOU ARE LIVING IN. DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF, TAKE A CLASS, START EXCERCISING, MAKE NEW FRIENDS.
I WENT THRU A LOCAL COLLEGE PROGRAM THAT PREPARED ME FOR LIFE WITHOUT THE EX, IT INCLUDED CLASSES LIKE EMPLOYMENT READINESS, SELF ESTEEM, TIA CHI, PARENTING. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-01 04:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? Get up and brush yourself off and learn how to stand on your own two feet. Forget the child support, you had them, you support them.
2006-09-01 04:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋