2006-09-01 04:32:10 · 14 answers · asked by shawtyp0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This question is going to get one of two answers. These are related to how an individual here believes in the controversy of abortion, right to life, or the right of choice. This is a highly charged emotional issues and it is very personal. What she should do is up to her and not anyone here, nor is it anyone's place to judge her for the decision she does finally come to after heartrending thought and struggle.
Personally I think with how many childless couples yearning for children would despertly want and love this currently unwanted and perhaps unloved child. If she is about to give birth then this means she is far along with this pregnancy. This is such a sad situation. Regardless of her responsibility in allowing herself to become pregnant with a child she does not want, this is still a horrific and heart stopping delemma. Only she can make the decision of what she should do.
With that said, I firmly believe this child should be provided a home which would want and love s/he. This woman already has altered her body makeup with her other three babies, so it is not really a consideration of it being a first pregnancy and the issue of what it will do to her body. So, I think this child deserves a life with a loving family who would really want s/he. I don't think it fair to this unborn and helpless infant to take away his/her life right before it really begins. How sad that would be, especially when so many despertly want a child to love and raise. Not to mention the child could very well be raised in a prosperous family with opportunities s/he would not recieve with this woman. Especially the being wanted part.
This is such a charged situation, but please lets not lose sight of the fact this child did not ask to be conceived and is completely helpless and innocent. Think long and hard before coming to a decision. There are those who would be happy to pay all expenses for the birth, will help this family out in other ways while waiting for the birth of the child. There is not any reason to not take advantage of what is offered. It is a fair compensation for providing them what they so despertly want. I am NOT saying to sell this child. Just allow the adoptive family she chooses to help out financially with the birth expenses and other expenses she would need help with while bringing the child to birth.
I feel very sad for this woman and for this child. I am a pro-choice just so you know where I stand. However, I do not believe in using abortion as a form of birth control, I support abortion in cases of health issues, young pregnancies, rape, incest. This is a tough issue and it will raise many responses. However, this has to be the decision of the mother. I just hope she decides to allow this innocent child life. Blessed Be.
2006-09-01 04:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's early before 13 weeks abort. If shes farther then that maybe adoption. It's a bad situation but, she can always keep it they seem to have a way of wining your heart once they are born. BUT about adoption those who say SO MANY COUPLES want a child are just not here in reality there are more children waiting 4 a home then there are parents who want them. MANY REACH adulthood without even having a home think about that.
2006-09-01 11:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she doesn't want to baby she should have it and then give it up for adoption. There are plenty of GOOD people out there that are not blessed enough to have kids. That baby didn't ask for it. She did when she laid down. She really needs to go have her tubes tied. If she doesn't want to have any more kids she needs to fix that problem!
2006-09-01 11:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by jeter2 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
She should put the baby up for adoption along with the rest of them. It sounds as though she isn't making the best of decisions in her life and should put more time into growing up and being responsible than making babies she can't take care of.
2006-09-01 11:40:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she should seriously pray about this! if she still doesn't want this baby then she should go to an agency(adoption) good luck and my heart goes out to her.
2006-09-01 11:45:24 · answer #5 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
3 babies and she STILL isn't responsible.........she should give up sex or start using her brain a bit more.
2006-09-01 11:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by moi 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
stop having sex without protection! She could put it up for adoption
2006-09-01 11:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by webster1305 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well she has options,abortion or adoption.
2006-09-01 11:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ABORT then tubes tied.
2006-09-01 11:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
r u sure ur not talking about yourself
2006-09-01 11:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by canibus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋