Why to judgemental people have to pop up and give us their critisism instead of an honest answer?
Has anyone else noticed that people are SO fast to condemn rather than just open up and give an answer? is it just me?
Any Ideas? Theories? Let's hear it!
Thanks!
2006-09-01 04:26:40 · 10 answers · asked by Madeleine 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
WOW-you're all pretty terrific! I just needed to know it wasn't just me.
:)
2006-09-01 04:46:41 · update #1
It is usually the people who never ask questions who are hyper critical...is that hypocritical...of those who do, go figure
I suspect that they hide behind their little avatars in their bedrooms waiting for their Mummy to make them dinner, you may represent the first woman they have ever talked to, they are probably just shy...didn't boys used to do this at school when they wanted to talk to you, but didn't know what to say?
Voltaire said "I may not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it"..seems fair to me, if, indeed, this is one of those free speech type democracy things that I have heard all about.
I get panned all the time for asking silly questions, I do this specifically to wind the serious people up (especially religious folk on her) well and because I am mostly very silly
They got issues, bottom line, and unload on anyone; everyone as this web site provides easy targets...Pay them no mind, my dear, for they are monkeys.
2006-09-01 04:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
people who do that have no goals or motivation in there life! they don't care about others and have irrational beliefes low selfesteem and think they have all the smarts in the world!
it makes them feel better to know that someone doesn't know what they know so when someone ask this type of pereson a question and they know the answer and they have not respect or consieration to answer it they just call you stupid or what ever because they THINK they know the answer and they really don't so sence they don't care why should you!
i beleive that is there mind set!
Not very smart of them but i bet you they are know it alls in reality the more you know the more you realize you don't know there for you will not call your self a know it all you will always be willing to learn because of that!
it's sad that there are so many people out ther that do condem reather then help! can you imagine what the world would be like if we all helped someone weather we think it was important or knowledgeable or not!
either that or here it's the 2 points everyone wants to be on top! so if they can just answer a queiton of your eg
you suck'
they get 2 points!
I personaly tend to ignore them cuz they are just looking to boost there ego in the wrong type of way!
plus life is to short to sink down to there level!
Good luck
Nice post!
Mad luv
2006-09-01 04:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see you're a level 2. You'll get jaded and pissed off eventually.
It is inevitable on here. I had your attitude too when I first started. Sometimes, It is almost impossible to filter the jerks from the honest people. I just cast a net of humor and satire over everything anyway. It is just my way... I do my best to use my judgment to decide who really wants honest answers by how their question is posed. If it is ridiculous, it merits a ridiculous answer.
I mean come on... who doesn't know what to do when they cut themselves with scissors yet can still type a short essay on here asking people what they should do about it... Sometimes it's just too stupid to be treated respectfully.
2006-09-01 04:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People feel that they have a innate right to judge others not considering the fact that people ask questions to get true and honest answers. You do have to consider the fact that the open forum is designed to illicit conversation and answer the questions and apart of that is being able to deal with the judgement of others.
2006-09-01 04:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by psychologist is in 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for your question. I've been thinking this myself. I've helped some people and been helped through BLOG. Interacting with people in cyber-space isn't like the real world. It's easier to be rude because all any of us are actually doing is typing into a computer. Like anything else, we can all choose what (and who) to take seriously AND we are all have the right to be listened to and treated with respect.
2006-09-01 06:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have noticed that its not just you... If the people have a something negative to say about the question they should just keep it to themselves right? I always answer honestly and considerate. For i want the same for myself... Its just Q&A's people dont get so fussy about it...Good luck :)
2006-09-01 04:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by brutalA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not just you. You are in a virtual courtroom filled with judges and condemn because they can. Grow a thicker skin and keep going.
2006-09-01 06:05:46 · answer #8 · answered by lpaganus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opinions are like a**holes, everyone has one, and the collective sentiment is generally quite pessimistic. I think this just might be human nature really.
2006-09-01 04:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by YouDon'tKnowMe 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have found this to true with many questions I post, I suggest using big words to confuse those that just want to *****....
2006-09-01 04:34:23 · answer #10 · answered by bullybrian2000 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋