My younger sister has been getting into alot of trouble. She is only 13 years old and thankfully I went through her things and found alot more than I wanted. Such as:
1. smoking pot
2. having sex "been with over 6 guys"
3. sneaking out
4. shoplifting "banned from Wal-mart"
5. who knows what else.
See our parents did not raise up to be this way at all and I do not know what has promote her to do these type of things but nothing seems to help her with these problems. It gets better for awhile and then back to the same old crap. Me and both parents have done everything you can think of to help her to become better. But now I found that she has a page on myspace but it is set private. I just want to know that she is not up to anything else. My parents are at the point of sending her to a juvenille place so that she can be monitored but I would like to help before that happens.
So does anyone know how it can be broken into so that I can check everything out?
2006-09-01 04:26:19 · 15 answers · asked by chocolatesyrup101 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
I know that I can report her and have it deleted but she can always make another one, but I would like to see what is there before that is done....
2006-09-01 04:27:01 · update #1
Iv'e tried putting myself as a boy but she has not added him yet.... And I would try others but it takes forever making several accounts.
2006-09-01 04:35:27 · update #2
Try to add her to your friendlist and disquise yourself as a guy and talk to her. I bet you will be able to find out a lot about her.
2006-09-01 04:33:19 · answer #1 · answered by ☮ Erica ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok - I basically examine all of your questions in the previous, you've actually requested 4 or 5 and none of them were troll-like. So right it really is a extreme answer. Your mom is abusing your sister, very heavily. Abuse is not basically about beatings, it may commence with basically impatient or annoyed looks or words, then unreasonable demands or acts like this. allow me wager - your mom expects your little sister to eat more effective because she's skinny, or eat a lot less because she's fat, or be potty experienced more effective, or maybe with the reality that. Then what she's doing is, in her own concepts, justifiable because no longer some thing else has "worked" to "make her learn" even with the reality that the lesson is meant to be. it really is thoroughly incorrect. Forcing an anorexic to eat, or withholding nutrients from an overweight toddler, makes issues worse no more effective. for instance. I comprehend it really is not any longer the case right here, yet someway your mom ought to have rationalised this as mandatory. For that, SHE desires help. conserving secrets and techniques in the relatives is bigoted to everybody. Please, PLEASE at latest tell a instructor, relative, whoever you've self belief who will trust you.
2016-12-06 02:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you referring to her profile when you say private? All profiles of anyone under 14 (I think that is the age) are private. You should still be able to view her page.
From what you write, it sounds like she needs some intervention. She has picked a rocky road that only leads to heartache. I don't know what kind of juvenile place you are talking about, but I would suggest counseling first. Good luck to all of you. Been there, done that with my daughter. We survived, and I wish you the same.
2006-09-01 04:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Renae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of invading her privacy and getting angry with her about it. Why don't you try being a good role model for her and talking to her about the things she does. My siblings are very open with me about the things that they do and they come to me for advice. You seem to be a loving, caring sister so I'm sure if you acted interested in your sister's life she would change her actions. Don't get mad at her for what she does and just be there for her. She'll grow up. Request her as a friend on myspace. Tell her it's because you want to be able to contact her on there. Maybe she'll let you add her, then you can view her profile whenever you want. good luck
2006-09-01 04:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Smoking Pot...drug test available at Walgreens
2) Having Sex....take her for a gynelogical exam, req HIV test, see if you can contact an HIV support group and let her meet HIV positive patients and their families (FIRST HAND), sign her up for the "Baby Think It Over program (infomation ath her school)
3) Sneaking Out.......remove the door from her room (privacy is earned through trust..she has broken your trust. Install a security system that includes monitoring windows (they are not expensive)...
4)shoplifting look for a shoplifting treatment programs in your community, talk to your pastor. Do not allow her to go to ANY store without supervision, without $$ in her pocket, no hanging out at the mall with her friends...take something that she cherishes from her (without her knowing). Let her whine and cry over it for a week or two then tell her you took it; ask her how it feels to have something "stolen" from her...
5) these are the things you have busted her doing...there is more!!!! Go to her school, check her grades and attendance. Let school officials know what is going on at home and ask for their assistance
Good Luck
2006-09-01 04:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Natural_Woman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling. If you become her "friend" on myspace you can see everything. Just create a page of a young boy. A little older then your sister. Find out what you can and then take her to a counselor. ASAP. Good Luck.
2006-09-01 04:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be looking for attention. If both your parents are workaholics, that my be part of the culprit. She feels left out of the family and lashes out by finding other people that will pay attention to her (multiple sex partners). Sending her off to timbuck two is only productive if and only if your family has poured a lot of time, money and effort into helping her change her ways. Otherwise, it will only confirm to her that she is a reckluse from her family and will feel like she is no longer part of it, making the juvinile camp's job much much harder. For them it would be easier to motivate change in someone who is going back to a loving home than to motivate someone who is going back to a home that they were rejected from.
2006-09-01 04:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up ne yourself and add her as a friend, but if you dont think she would except your friend request, then change your name to something else so she doesn't know its you and then add her as a friend. if all that fails then go to one of her friends that you know has a myspace and say that you need HER to log on so you can see your sisters page and say its for your sisters safety and if she wont let you then say "you are a bad friend to my sister then if you wont do something for HER safety!"
2006-09-01 04:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by qwerty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good to see that you are a big sister and helping her--they are tooo many wackos out their including this site-- I had a friend like her and boot camp for juveniles and she got her head on straight and she will need a mentor to get her through it and it sounds like will would be great at it ------ good luck
2006-09-01 04:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to become her friend, then you can see her page. Maybe disguise yourself as a hot boy.
2006-09-01 04:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Yoi_55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋