2006-09-01 03:53:23 · 25 answers · asked by zoey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for the advice. Yeah, its pretty crappy cause he has them in the first drawer of his dresser (not good) and they are from a more previous replationship so I dont know why he would have them around. They were left around so carelessly that I thought he may have forgotten about them, except I remembered he just moved into his place last month. DAMN.
2006-09-01 04:17:46 · update #1
HELL NO!!!! if youre his girlfriend he shouldnt be looking at any other girl naked, especially his ex. cuss him out, and burn those pics
2006-09-01 03:56:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends if he's only a bf he has every right to keep them. My hubby has a photo of his ex it's not nude thou, It dose not bother me at all. He is in the pic to and it's at his grandfathers cabin with the cabin in the background. I don't know why he has it but, she was a part of his life HE CHOOSE to leave her some 5 years ago. He has no contact so I don't care that he has it. I have photos of my ex hubby mostly because we have a 8 year old together THEY are 4 her and many are old family photos. Even if we had no kids together i don't know that i would get rid of them we spent 8 years together. So if they bug you tell him but IMO he's entitled to his past. I have notes from my ex too.
2006-09-01 04:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he's entitled to keep them... but why do you want to keep him?
Now that you know about the pictures, you can clearly tell him that you are not comfortable with this situation and ask if he would consider destroying or returning the pictures. If he says no, then you have a decision on your hands.
Stay in the relationship and accept things as they are... or break it off.
However, he can always lie... tell you he destroyed the pictures but just relocated them to another hiding spot.
2006-09-01 04:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is disrespectable. Are these pictures buried in a box somewhere and he hasn't seen them in years? Or are these pictures are somewhere he can look at them all of the time? (That would tell me he's not over her). If it was just a female form he wanted to look at, he would have playboy pictures cut out. What I would do is wait til he is gone or asleep and get rid of them. If the pictures are buried in a box somewhere, it would be a long time before he noticed. If they are out when you get rid of them you are going to have to fess up when asked. Don't lie about getting rid of them-stand your ground. And while he's getting upset, point out to him how soon he noticed the ex's pics were gone. Ex. It only took you an hour to know there were missing. Good luck
2006-09-01 04:04:58 · answer #4 · answered by ps 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I can understand regular pictures, but the naked ones, I'm having a really hard time with. I tried to put myself in your shoes for a second, and I wouldn't like it either. I would be feeling that he still has some sort of an attraction to her or something. Try asking him why he has them, and then voice your opinion on how they make you feel. If he really cares about you, he'll get rid of them.
2006-09-01 04:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As the previous person said, if you found them in a dusty box in the attic I would do the nicest thing and accidently burn them. However, if he has frequent access to them, say on his phone, computer or in a photo ablum pride of place on the living room mantle piece, i would give him the sharp side of my tongue. Either he wants a picture of his past conquest... or he gets busy lovin his present real life girl. good luck girl.
2006-09-01 04:11:15 · answer #6 · answered by madgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is not entitled to keep them. If he is with you and only you he should not want to keep them. After all he would not want you to keep none of your ex-boyfriend naked pictures. Just ask him and see what he says. And I bet some where in his answer it will be. if you do I would leave you!!.
2006-09-01 04:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by shawtyp0000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entitled? Um...that's not really the question, cause technically he can. The question is...will you stay with a guy who keeps piles of pics of his ex...AND let you find out about it!
2006-09-01 04:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur boyfriend is not ur worth of ur love. Break the ice in front of him, and also dont be with him. Hez fooling around, as he fooled his ex. Also talk to him abt it. If he feels guilty then its fine, or else say "no-no" to urself with him. Good Luck!
2006-09-01 04:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys live together, he needs to get rid of that stuff. At least get it out of the place you guys share. If not, there's not much you can do. I damn sure wouldn't go for that if it was me. They'd have to go or I would.
2006-09-01 03:59:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course he's entitled to keep them because he is a free man. However, it is disrespectful to you...
Make sure you don't let him take naked pics of you tho.
2006-09-01 03:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋