2006-09-01 03:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by pallavi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be yourself. It should come naturally since you want to be romantic.
2006-09-01 03:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance is about a 50/30/20 blend of sensitivity, sensuality, and sex. Cooking or buying him his favorite meal can be a very romantic gesture, because you've not only got the sensual pleasures of his favorite foods, but you're also demonstrating that you care about making him happy (by specifically choosing his favorite foods to cook/acquire). Top it off by serving the meal by candlelight, as dim lighting is often considered sexy.
Or let's also consider the possibility of going on a date to see one of his favorite bands in concert:
Sensitivity - check (you've picked a band you know he likes)
Sensuality - check (sense: hearing; good music)
Sex - hmmm...need a little something here. Maybe just keeping your arms around him for a while during the show, or if they happen to play a good makeout song....
www.lovingyou.com has some simple ideas; just run them all through the checklist and see how you can make them work.
P.S. You can usually swap out some of the sex for more of the sensuality or sensitivity. But don't cut it out entirely; you *are* dealing with a guy, after all.
2006-09-01 11:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have kind of the same problem with my husband. I cant really tell when he's in the "mood". So, I play it safe and wait until he comes to me, which is not that often. I have tried in the past to make a move on him and he either ignored it or didnt get it all together. So, my feelings got hurt and I quit trying.
But, you should not do as I did.
Tell him how much you care for him and then show him. It doesnt have to mean you have sex, but if it leads to that, so much better for you, I say.
Sex is over rated, but, it can also be a very rewarding and exciting experience. Try to make time for him and do some of the things he likes to do. Maybe you will find that you enjoy those things too.
Whatever you do to get his attention, remember that it is not always about him. You need attention too. Don't put all of your focus on him and forget about yourself.
2006-09-01 11:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by babyblue9199 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
light some candles, make him dinner, then sit on his lap and feed it to him slowly so that he savors each bite. Then give him a massage, you can always fill up the tub with bubbles and let him soak while you give him a massage or join him yourself. "Greet him at the door with nothing on" like Christina Milian would say. Wait er...i just saw you say boyfriend...um do everything I say after he becomes your husband...because it will all probably lead to sex. Call me old-fashioned but I think ur better off saving that for the guy who loves you enough to commit his life to you and you only. Not some random boy who fancies you for the moment. Oh there's also stuff you can do with rose petals. Bake him heart shaped cookies. Write him little cards and hide them all over the house. On the them write stuff like "valid for 2 kisses" and say that he can claim them when he finds them. Or put on some of his favorite music and just take him in your arms. Plan a picnic in a special spot. Ofcourse you can never go wrong with just catering to him and making him feel special.
2006-09-01 11:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by Missy chandrasekar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a good listener at first and taking note of his interests...
use this later to surprise him by sharing his interests too.
Give him time to express his feelings and don't expect too much straight away. Let them feel comfortable in ur company.
Remember the things that u like about him and keep a note of it....remind him of these special things or write it in a letter...even better when out for lunch or an organised meeting, write it on the napkin...
Have a candle lit dinner...afterwards spend time looking up at stars and talking to each other....feel relaxed and don't talk about urself too much...
...talk to him in a seductive sexy tone of voice, practice first on what to say. Enjoy closeness and use ur eyes to do the talking.
Don't jump into having sex,can just explore each others body...leave the mystery for next time...
Use ur five senses to create a poem especially for him...
Surprise him with soft sex talk in the next dates...
Use ur hands to explore his body and whisper in his ear gently what u r feeling...let his imagination work its own wonders...
Look beautiful for his eyes only...plan what to wear and what is comfortable for u. Ensure it shows off ur good parts...
let him explore ur body (with ur permission of course)
Learn some songs and sing them spontaneously, pick the right moment where he doesn't get embarrassed...
But most importantly....be honest with him, don't hurt his feelings by teasing him, try to talk with good eye contact, show respect for certain times/situations, men love food cooked with ur hands, don't be fake and always be urself.
2006-09-01 11:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plan for a weekend where there could b u and ur bf so that u could just b u, let ur bf feel ur affection thorugh ur words, and ur slight touch,,
2006-09-01 11:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just allow him to screw u, feel the happiness, go to sleep. this is the ******* romance. Sorry, dont forget CONDOM.
2006-09-01 13:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by 50+Brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hug him, kiss him, drag him to bed.
2006-09-01 11:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him & join with me i will give u the real one enjoy
2006-09-01 10:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by vipin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dunno how to be intimate ?
its not like a mind thing to a think about !!!! you think of its just some thing you feel ! some ppl like soft music, some ppl like candle lights , some ppl like fireplace light some ppl like flash lights :P , some ppl prefer a good dinner .................... etc it can be so many stuff you just think about what you like that's all ?????????????
2006-09-01 10:56:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋