How can I get a shy boy to talk to me?

Question

I have two classes with this boy who i like. the problem is he is shy. i am really out going and i would just like to know if he wants to be friends (maybe later on more than friends). what can i do to get him out of his shell.

Answer 1

Ask him some questions that are easy to answer, like -- did you like pirate of the carribean.

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Answer 2

Well, he's shy as long he's never talked to you much.Believe me what you have to do is just to approach him casually, like for a notebook and something and subsequently striking up a light conversation. Don't be over enthusiastic and talk about only a topic that he knows well.Don't make him feel awkward. He'll realize that you are interested in him and definitely open up. Then perhaps he'll talk more than you. Just do it.
Best of luck!!

Answer 3

Be patient. My youngest boy is so shy. (7th grade) You need to try and talk to him and let him no you would like to be his friend . He will talk. My son did not talk to my Bro-in-law for 3 months, no they are buddies. Let him no if you ever need a friend he can count on you. Good Luck! By the way his teacher said he is coming out of his shell.

Answer 4

Personally, I myself am a rather shy guy especailly whenit comes to meeting new people and especailly gals.

My two cents worth.....The main reason why he is shy is probably because he fells something for you. Trust me...its more difficult to meet eye to eye with someone you have a kindling for.

It would certainly help if you could indicate to him that you are interested in him if you have not done already. I think since this is the 20th century....go ahead, make the first move......be the guy in the relationship....hehe......sometimes its better to be thick skinned then let a possibly great relationship go.....

Hope this is helpful

cheers

Answer 5

ok heres what you do once you notice him strolling his canines or only strolling then pass up and hellow he will maximum possibly say wats up with not something after which you will desire various braveness to try this so once you notice him dont think of in any respect using fact the greater you think of the greater you will bale out than in case you dont be responsive to each and each others names than you ask for it the communication will escelate from there on account which you're able to have organic instinkt for something of the communication then ask for his variety and vise versa while it is dealt with than textual content fabric him each and every so frequently and invite him on your place for a while you will could desire to be only freinds

Answer 6

Start a conversation, by conversing, you can tell when the person fits your tastes. After conversing a lot, he'll feel more confortable talking to other people or women.

Answer 7

You take off your shyness and approch him boldly as a friend first and later on do as you wish to keep the relationship with him.

Answer 8

I think you should try to get close to him little by little. You don't want to scare him. When he is not bothered with your presence around then it's time to have a real talk with him.
Don't give him up. He's just not self-confident, but you can change it.

Answer 9

Talk to him. Ask him about his hobbies. What he does for fun, etc. Not all guys will come out of their shell, but he may come out enough to be your friend. Good luck.

Answer 10

in this case you take the bull by the horns and start talking See is he will sit with you at lunch or walk after school Ask questions about his life and family...