2006-09-01 03:30:38 · 25 answers · asked by Behnaz N 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Do what I do and just deal. I can't leave my house w/out assistance and spend most of my time alone. Read, write, draw, watch tv, think. Just whatever you have to do to cope.
2006-09-01 03:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by c.arsenault 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Find something your passionate about and let that fill your time. For instance when I feel really alone I paint and write. Also get a pet like a cat or dog. Also remember your not really alone. Look to God--he is always there. I dont know your views on that but I know what Ive been through and how alone I tnd to feel. Thats what helps me get through. Also, Im sure you have friends you can all on as well. Keep your head up. Everyone feels alone at times. Just some more than others.
2006-09-01 10:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Starliner 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a walk. Read a nice book. Go to the mall. Call a family member or friend . Go to church maybe you can join a group maybe the choir at church. Talk to your doctor tell him how alone you feel. Hope things get better for you soon. I know the feeling of being alone and I am surrounded by people all the time. Take care.
2006-09-01 10:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you've got a few great answers here (except for the people who keep telling you to go out "with your friends" -- when it sounds like you may not have friends to go out with, so although well-meaning, i think that's some pretty thoughtless and lousy advice)...
it also might help people answer if you explained a bit about how you came to feel this way. i mean, was it always this way, or did something happen to suddenly get you here? if we know more about the problem, we can know better how to help. =)
also, if you can figure out the process of how you became "alone," it might be easier to get back to where you were. um... don't ask why i remember this, but this randomly reminds me of this quote i saw in that ancient (and very cheesy/low-budget) movie "Supergirl," from the 80s. at some point they're trapped in this weird dungeon from hell, and everything seems hopeless, like they'll never escape. and she tells him something like, "we CAN get out!" and then says (and i quote exactly), "if there's a way IN, there's a way OUT." and it's true! =)
but for the time being, i know how you feel.... all too well. *hug.*
2006-09-01 12:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by melon_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "really alone". If you're not liking this situation and want to change it, call your best friend and try going out. Go to the mall, to the movies, to Mc Donalds... anywhere! Sometimes all we need is to "get out" of the world, cause it often suffocates us in such a way that we feel alone even among a crowd. How to do that? You gotta find out. If you're alone and not happy with this, you should hang out with a couple of friends.
2006-09-01 10:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by Syaoran 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being alone isn't the worst thing in the world. You could be with someone abusive or annoying. Join some clubs, get a hobby, volunteer to help others. The universe does not revolve around you.
2006-09-01 10:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
everyone is alone. even those who have people they love. in the end, we all die alone. be comfortable with it or you will live a miserable life.
the "alone" people always end up miserable because when they find someone, something else will make them feel empty.
You just have to enjoy that you can't always be happy all the time.
What I do is remind myself that it is an incredible miracle that I am even here to begin with. I had to beat 6 million sperm to get to an egg in order to be here typing this response.
I often wonder if depressed people were weak sperm that someone got luckily past the smarter, faster sperm that should have gotten to the egg.
Ponder that to yourself and let me know if you don't feel so bad about it anymore.
2006-09-01 10:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Tones 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i really know the pain of being alone......i feel really sorry 4 u...
to avoid that as most of them suggested buy a pet or else i'm always ready to be a good friend to you.. u can mail to me on anju_trishna@yahoo.co.in
waiting 4 your mail of friendship..........
wishing you best of luck in which ever way you select.
i know all this as this has happened to me many a times, though, not now...
2006-09-01 10:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by kajol999 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wel that depends on how old you are your health looks, general personality etc, if your a serial i killerr or ax murderr we can see why your all alone here if none of the above depending onn what your loking for, its very hard too try and straighten or stter you in the right directions here okay your a, molesterr forget itt no room for you in this ocity if you are jump out a 22 story window etyc we have no idea why your alone youe life history done even know what you want in life here are you like straight gay what?
2006-09-01 10:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a new hair cut it makes you feel good...
whenever ur lonely... write what you feel in a diary.... and get ur emotions out... you will feel a lot better....
get a pet....if you can.... birds have some unique features that it brings piece of mind...
you also have a lot of networking sites... where u can chat... but again be careful no to give away personal info
try www.orkut.com its really good! and addictive!
2006-09-01 13:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by CapriciousMind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋