the reason is we have been spending time together and alot has been happening, i just couldn't hold not to tell him how i feel, did i screw everything up or what?
2006-09-01 03:18:23 · 11 answers · asked by angel k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All through high school, I was dating this guy. This guy had a friend whom I became friends with (he was also dating my b/f). During my senior year, my relationship ended with my b/f, as did the relationship between our friends. About two years later... guess who I began seeing?? Yes... my old best friends boyfriend and friend of my old b/f!! Confusing? Either way, we've been together for 2 and a half years and we're doing great! Moral of the story? Good for you in telling your friend how you feel! I hope you guys make it!
2006-09-01 03:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to be honest, so I think you did the right thing... how could you go on just being friends feeling the way you do... you must of felt that he wouldn't mind hearing that about how you felt for him. Now you just need to wait and see if he feels the same way. I think too maybe he was afraid to move to fast and was happy you told him first, some guys are shy like that. Either way, why wait and let a possible future with him slip by if you had never told him. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-01 10:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by telling what's in your heart. Its good that you have tell him about your feelings for him. Now its upon him,. If he too feels the same way for you, then life will be happier for you both. But if he don't, then you can start loking for someone else for love. But that doesnt mean its over for you both. you can always continue to be friends. After all, its normal to tell your friend that you love him. Actually, friendship is love without sex.
Good luck
2006-09-01 10:29:00 · answer #3 · answered by Goldenheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing myself, but I haven't told him yet. I've been agonizing over it for weeks and I can't bring myself to tell. But if you are truely in love with him, I hope he feels the same way for you. Everything will work out.
2006-09-01 10:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by agentamber005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he say in reply? It's tough to take back the big "L" once you throw it out there. My guess is everything's just fine, just don't keep saying it if he won't return the sentiment and maybe try to find someone who loves you back if he doesn't.
2006-09-01 10:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how he reacted when u told him. iif he was confused then u still have a chance he just needs time to think abt what u told him, if he just shook his head and walked away then u have lost a friend.give us more details and we can tell u if every thing is ok
waiting for more details
2006-09-01 10:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he is truly a friend, you should be able to sit down and talk to him about this.
2006-09-01 10:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r realy enjoyin each other, no need to tell him,,,if u r in a strain, juz tell him...what else...all the best...:-)
2006-09-01 10:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by prasadc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww....good luck.
2006-09-01 10:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is avoiding you, then maybe he does not feel the same way
2006-09-01 10:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋