This guy that i was dating decided that he wanted to cheat on me b/c im big. He said that the reason was b/c i am to big and not worth any love. what should i do about him?
2006-09-01 03:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Forget about him, thats what!
when the right person comes along they will just love you.
:)
2006-09-01 03:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by squirrely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a crappy excuse, but is there ever a good reason for cheating?!
I think it's time for you to move on! There are men out there who prefer big women. I know, because I found one!
I'm in the process of changing my eating and exercise habits, and have lost nearly 40 lbs. It sure helps to have someone by my side who loves me at any size. BUT if he didn't, I'd rather be on my own than with someone who didn't love me for who I was.
2006-09-01 10:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by dukefan86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why he thinks that way? Bigger question: Does it matter?
Your name is "Gods gurl", so I take it that you are faithful. Therefore, you know that we are all beautiful in His eyes. Don't be with someone who doesn't value your worth. He's cheated on you and he's cheating himself if he only values what's on the outside.
Love God, life, family and friends, and open yourself up to other options. By that I mean to let this guy go, so you can be free to find someone worthy of you.
2006-09-01 10:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Apple21 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is a big LOSER! If he was with you form the start when you were big, he had no problem with it...He is just a low life who doesnt feel good about himself, so he will portray that on you to make his low self-esteem higher. You deserve someone who loves you for who you are.
2006-09-01 10:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by nrsechica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him hon, he was obviously a sleeze bag, and insecure and immature in his own mind about his level of commitment that he is able to give......dont let it get to you, he will find himself loveless in time as he will find fault with anyone he becomes involved with, you being big is not an excuse as he chose to date you, while you were big, so he obviously didnt have an issue with it to start with did he? He is low self esteemed himself, obviously, because he cant find comfort with you, perhaps he has some growing up to do before he decides to date anyone else?
i myself am big and have found countless wonderful lovers in my adut life, that have loved and appreciated me for my mind and heart and have enjoyed the time theyve spent in my life. This guy isnt worth your time or heartache.....if it helps go and take a self esteem class, being beautiful only takes a change of mind set, nothing more, veiw yourself as worthy, and in return others will do the same.......good luck to you.
2006-09-01 10:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth much in my book . That is crazy ! I just hope that kind of karma coming back around to him teaches him a good life lesson ! I don't know you sweetie but I bet you are a very sweet girl. Get away from this boy he is abusive !!!!!
2006-09-01 10:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big people are worth loving. People shouldn't just love someone because of their appearnace. That kind of love will not last.
But if being big is becoming a serious health problem then you should think of reducing weight.
2006-09-01 10:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by al 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who thinks that is not worth loving themselves.
Okay, I take that back, because everyone should be loved by someone. But he doesn't deserve yours.
2006-09-01 10:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by ask the eightball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big people aren't worth loving because they don't love themselves, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. You can start loving yourself by losing weight, because if your big than that shows you have no respect for yourself and your body.
2006-09-01 10:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by md_free23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that think like that are not worth hanging with, look elsewhere, there are better people out there.
2006-09-01 10:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by eldridgejoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋