2006-09-01 03:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by cookie22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dude give sum more info if u want sum1 tu help u how are ve suppose tu anser withoutm any info????????????
2006-09-01 03:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by ????? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think responsibly and act sensibly.You seem to be bitter with a relationship and would like to end it,but you have to explain to kids who can not comprehend your feelings.Before the relationship falters completely upsetting the lives of innocent ones,you need to take counselling with your partner and make the final decision for improving the happiness of the kids.If you loose sight of kids in your decision,you loose heavily,not just a relationship,but all good sense you have possessed at the time of posing this question.
2006-09-01 07:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by ramraj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this:
1. You should be economically independent.
2. You must be capable of taking care of kids.
3. Men are not sentimental when it comes to kids.
4. When you have kids, you have more problems.
5. You have to go to a proper court of law to get divorce from your husband and request the court to order for alimony from your husband.
6. Later you can marry another person, who can support you.
7. or you have to live and lead your life alone till your kids become independent.
8. But for an independent life Money is important.
2006-09-01 03:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do some serious thinking first. top priority should be the welfare of the kids. Dont be foolish and think only of self, remeber what you do will directly affect the kids lives and could damage them for along time. If your that unhappy better gt some professional help. Your not going to get good sound advice from us, we do not know all of the situation and for myslef that disqualifes me as giving you good advice.
2006-09-01 03:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is talk to your partner about your desire to end your relationship and why. You have to be very honest and open even if it means one or both of you will get hurt. You'll then be in a better position to discuss about your kids and make amicable arrangements accordingly.
2006-09-01 03:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by dds502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incase there are kids involved you should talk things out resolve the problems you are facing , if you have to take some of your friends or relatives advise than dont hesitate and go for it because that's best for you and your kids future
2006-09-03 00:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for what reason/s? have you tried counselling yet? if there are children involved and you really want what is best for them, try counselling first. if you are in an abusive relationship, get out of the relationship now. you are not protecting your children by exposing them to abuse or witnessing abuse. good luck :)
2006-09-01 03:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to subscribe to the theory that life is too short to be miserable with someone and that I deserve to be happy in whatever I am doing. So with that said, you have to ask yourself if you would be happier without him and if the answer is yes...you deserve to be happier.
2006-09-01 03:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are so unhappy that you are willing to leave your marriage then i say leave and don't stay for the kids!! because all you will be doing is hurting them!!your kids should come first!
2006-09-01 03:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out by hook or by crook. You will be doing your kids a favor.
2006-09-01 21:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋