Please help me, I need your advice. I am in love with this guy, i never felt this way about anyone before. I want to share my life with him. Were friends, & i love him more than life. He is just not a stable person, had a hard life & he runs away alot one city to the next and he drinks more than the average. I am at a lost, because i can't stop thinking about him, i worry about him & his choices. I have only known him in person for about 6 months, we had chatted online & telephone more than a year though. He just called me yesterday saying he left again, is a little more than an hour away & his dog is in a kennel. He loves his dog, thats his life, i don't know why he put it there. I called him a few hours ago, he hasn't called back i'll try again in a bit. His mom past away when he was a young child, & now his dad is in the hospital. I just love him alot & want to create a home with, 'cause i know that is what he is longing for, that caring, comfort & love.
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2006-09-01 03:07:45 · 4 answers · asked by in love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u need to just be there for him as a friend.. u can't choose who u fall in love with but unfortunately he is not for u!! just like u said he is not stable.. what r u gonna do, go and be unstable with him.. right now he has demons that he needs to deal with and i'm sure a relationship is not what he wants or needs at this point... he needs to get his life together 1st... u don't need to make his problems urs,,, he has to realize that he needs help before u can want to help him...
2006-09-01 03:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 04:19:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well unless you want a disastrous relationship, mt advice is to forget this guy. If as you say he is not stable, your in for a very bad relationship. Regardless of his life or experiences he needs help you cant give him..
2006-09-01 03:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should forget about him he does'nt love you at all. you may end up being abused.There are many men. Keep yourself busy by doing what you like.
2006-09-01 03:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by ladymonze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋