intimacy is few and far between,,dont know why,,but it is,,its like he has no drive to be intimate,,,
2006-09-01 02:59:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communicate with each other; he may have some issues he's not expressing or letting out... Seek counseling... Ask him to see his physician... Plan a romantic getaway, even if it just to a nearby hotel...
Above all, you have to talk with him on this subject and find out what's on his mind... the brain is considered the biggest sex organ and if something is weighing heavily on his mind, everything else stays limp.
Good luck...
2006-09-01 03:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it is over and he is just distancing himself from you? Is he cheating on you? I would think about those two questions first.. Specially if he was way into you in the beginning and just all of a sudden stopped! TRUST me it happened to me.. needless to say I found out he was possibly cheating on the internet and also with local girls and I got the hell out of there! It was hard.. I was engaged and planning a life with him.. but I knew something had to be going on once the sex all of a sudden just stopped! Good luck to you and I wish you the best!
2006-09-01 10:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try communicating with him. Talking to your partner is pretty much the only way to get to the bottom of this issue. Maybe he has a lot going on right now. I don't know. But talk to him. Don't jump to conclusions, just have it out with him.
2006-09-01 10:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds mental to be honest. Sounds like he has an issue with you one way or another. I encourage OPEN communication between the both of you. I suspect that he doesnt feel comfortable enough to tell you what his issue with you is.
2006-09-01 10:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him! see what could be wrong! believe it or not he may be dealing with too much stress! i am going through the same thing my self, except i am the one who is not in the mood. and i have delt with too much and didn't discuss my problems with my partner and this lead to me stressing to the point that i just didn't feel up to nothing! good luck
2006-09-01 10:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have a low sex drive. Talk to him about seeing a doctor.
2006-09-01 10:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlittlemama2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my partner is the same you have to find out what it is that he likes intimatly and do it more or try to talk and be open as possible.
2006-09-01 10:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a faster car
2006-09-01 10:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see what he says. then you two can work it out from there.
2006-09-01 10:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him & tell him what's bothering you, ask him if there's anything u can do 2 help spice it up. be creative!
2006-09-01 10:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by angeleyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋