Is it easier to get over the breakup of your marriage and the realization that your husband of ten years is a lying, cheating, deceptive person that you no longer know by moving. He has destroyed everything I believed in and I am considering moving to another city and starting over. Will this make it easier?
2006-09-01 02:37:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you dont want him back then go away far away start over,cut all ties,10 years is a long time and there is so much water under that bridge,i can tell by the way you worded your question there are still some feelings for him there but you are hurt and angry,as you should be,if you are certain you dont ever want to forgive him and want to cut all ties with him then yes i think a change would do you good,get away from him and the memories and make new ones sometimes a new atmosphere is just what a person needs to help the healing process along....good luck and be strong
2006-09-01 02:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
running away will not make anything easier. the resolve must start from within YOU.
it is unfortunate that your spouse turned out to be a jerk, but at this point you either have a choice to play the role of victim or victor. it is up to you to do that, girl, regardless of where you choose to live. click the dust off your prada heels and move on! there is a prince in shining armor who will give you the requited love and happiness you deserve! good luck.
2006-09-01 09:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive it would help make it easier to move away but I don't think you should move just because of him ,move because you want a fresh start and work on your life but don't do it to spite him because you will only mess up yourself.
An once you touch new ground and start meeting new people don't look back and you will eventually no longer acknowledge you past with him.
good luck!!!
2006-09-01 09:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN some ways probably yes but in others no. are you in therapy? you need to first and foremost realize that you are a good person who deserves better and can do better. don't let one person determine your life's worth. you have two choices go on and do the best you can no matter how hard(and even though you can't see the light it will get better) or let that jerk TOTALLY RUIN THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. You are better and deserve better no matter where you are.
2006-09-01 09:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by keepingthefaith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. Moving is the best way of distancing yourself from him and memories of him. Being in a new place gives you the chance of meeting new people and men. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-02 04:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray FORgive & seek God answer's don't seek answer's from people living in sin. Only you know if the two of you can stay together and work this out.
2006-09-01 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A change may be just the thing you need. Moving to a new city and starting fresh can and should be a good thing. Please remember that not all men are like your ex. find someone who will respect you. Good luck..............
2006-09-01 09:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have enormous forgiveness, a change of scenery will make things easier.
you really have to forgive him for his weakness in order to put it behind you, otherwise all the familiar surroundings will keep reminding you and make you angry and stressed.
2006-09-01 09:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it will... I have done it and started a new life and it is great...
move to a place you always wanted to be...
2006-09-01 09:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time well make it easyer and the next one .move if you want to if you thinnk it might help do no run or hide
2006-09-01 09:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋