2006-09-01 02:33:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
THEN THAT IS A PROBLEM
2006-09-01 02:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by angelkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is NO such thing as a soul mate... just an averused useless term defining a person you feel is "the one". You don't have a "one" on this planet but you do have a "type". A type of person that you are attracted to and have a personality that meshes with theirs.
Other than the fact your "soul mate" is NEW... you must have loved the person you married to marry them in the first place. Everyone loves the newness of a relationship regardless of whether it's a friendship or otherwise. Don't let this newness ruin a marriage or give you dillusions.
If your marriage is in the gutter, pull it out, see a therapist or divorce BEFORE you start something with someone else. AND then ask yourself this question... if this person cheats with you while you're married... what's to stop them from cheating on you if you were to marry them?
2006-09-01 02:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by MadMaxx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are very particular about your soul mate, you must have the courage to come out of your marriage and marry your soul mate. What will happen if you another soul mate, after this marriage with the first soul mate? Our mind so fickle that it will always hanker after new experiences, unless you keep it under your thumb. It is for you to decide whether you want to be controlled by the monkey called the mind or control the monkey yourself.
2006-09-04 23:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as a "soul mate" this romantic sounding term was only invented a few years back as a way for people to refer to somebody they are attracted too...
If you are questioning why you are married then you need to seek professional help - ideally end the marriage before any kids are involved if you think the marriage is no good...
otherwise consider the "soul mate" person as mearly a person of interest and discontinue seeing them before you slip and have an affair which is cruel to all parties involved and mostly that person is more attractive to you because they are "forbidden fruit" so its your mind playing tricks on you
2006-09-01 02:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get confused. Wandering minds keep searching out side and do not enjoy what they got. Truly speaking there can not be soul mate you must be compromising on some auspects. Look at the facts faced and anticipated in new soul mate.
2006-09-01 05:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by anand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you felt that someone after your marriage is your soul mate.May be you had a pre conceived notion about your marriage partner and that notion got hurt when you faced reality.Hence you want to escape from reality to something unreal.Awareness of your responsibility may bring the right kind of sense in you and you will find good points in your present existence and not try escapes which will not bring you the real kind of happiness.you must try your best not to create an illusion.remaining with present is happiness not running away from it.I hope i made things clear to you.
2006-09-01 04:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will marry any one after accepting that person from my soul ,i will not think abt any soul mate after marriage bcz person whom u r getting married will become soul mate.
2006-09-01 02:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by jaya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great deal of nobility and strength to be gained by honouring the sacred vows you made when you got married. And a lot of really bad karma to be gotten by breaking those vows.
You can go if you want, but in one way or the other, you will pay the price, and it's likely to be very high.
2006-09-01 12:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by huztuno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that my wife was my soul-mate but we used to joke about this possibility. It went something like this ...
I die first and go to heaven. She dies and comes to heaven and says 'Where is David, my soul mate?' St. Peter says ' He isn't your soul mate. Remember that skinny boy in school with the runny nose that you wouldn't talk to? He is your soul mate but you never gave him a chance. Better luck next time!'
As for your question. You would have to accept that this time around you would not be together. Better luck next time.
2006-09-01 02:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by David74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one you marry is actually your soul-mate or else you would have not married him/her. Your karmas are linked with this soul-mate and you have to pay as per your karmas . What you are referring to is not soul-mate but your love-mate coz you are physically attracted towards her. She/he can become your soul-mate if it is in your DESTINY.
2006-09-01 02:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by anil m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that's your soul mate? maybe you should do a lil soul searching. you married that other person for a reason. try to remember why you did. and think why you are having such strong feelings for someone else. dont make haste with this decision. think it through before you act.
2006-09-01 02:37:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋