my boyfreind makes fun of me because iam taking anti depressent pills from beiing so stressed out and wanting to kill myself and the dr's think that iam bipolor he's always calling me stupid in front of our 3girls and im always doing everything around the house (housework) i do everything for this man yesterday i asked how u can tell if ur man is cheating right well again this morning i fount more pics around the house as i was cleanning so he wonders why im so depressed what should i do should i just go ahead and leave this *** hole or should i just keep talking to him help
2006-09-01 02:31:13 · 4 answers · asked by idawilson30 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You deserve better.! You sound like a hard working woman who is in touch with herself. You have taken one step to help yourself and that is the medication. The second step would be to make a firm break and find a person who is willing to be supportive.
2006-09-01 03:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bluegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just mucking around with you. guys like to do this to get their minds off other things. i think he thinks he finally has something on you he could use against you, and is taking full advantage of that. what you should do is either give him a taste of his own medicine or threaten to leave him if he continues doing this to you, or leave him for good and look for someone who will really appreciate you for who you are, as well as take the kids with you. mayb you can go on a holidays with your kids and take a friend with you to help look after the kids, and perhaps through that holiday you'll be able to find someone good enough to be a part of your life. you cant keep having this continue. the thing with men, especially when u have kids, is that they dont think that you'll actually leave them and if u do leave them or they leave you, they assume you'll come back to them. if you really want to leave him, make sure that you dont go back to him because you dont want him getting the upperhand. good luck with whatever you choose to do.
2006-09-01 02:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its difficult to leave..But check whether living together is worth it.He should respect you, be your strength and try to get you out of it.He lacks in empathy and hence not a good Human being.You have to do house work,manage things..at times we get stressed up.not that you will have to take anti-depressants for ever.May be you can bring him back to line by changing your approach.If nothing works ...LEAVE
2006-09-01 02:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a new man, sweetie, one who can define his personality without belittling yours. I think I see the reason behind your stress and depression, it's this pillock you're living with.
2006-09-01 02:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋