I have lost weight since I met him so that can't be it. I see him look at other women with this want in his eyes that I never receive. Whenever I do get to touch him he saids that my touch feels like a creepy uncle. I am desperate, I am horny, and I care about him so I don't feel is right to cheat. I am in my early twenties so I'm sure there is hope for me with someone else. I just care about him a lot. I want to save us before I just get fed up and run away with someone less worthy. Help!
2006-09-01 02:13:55 · 13 answers · asked by Unsatisfied in Orlando 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Move along this one is a dud.
2006-09-01 02:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question. Did he always feel your touch was like a creepy uncle? I doubt it or you would never have gotten together. So what has changed? Is there a problem(s)? You said he looks at other women like he wants them, but doesn't look at you like that. Has it always been that way? If not, again, what has changed? Maybe he doesn't care about you as much as you care about him and wants out to date other women. You need to talk to him and see if that is what he wants or is there an issue that can be resolved so that the relationship can get back on the right foot again.
2006-09-01 09:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that creepy uncle thing is pretty harsh, he feels more like you are molesting him than loving...which is disgusting, did you ask him why he felt like this? The fact that you have lost weight could be an issue for him, maybe it feels like you're moving on and becoming a better person while he's left behind. Stop trying to touch him and have a serious discussion with him about it, when you come to the end the discussion state your solution and be firm with it, even if it means leaving him. Good Luck
2006-09-01 09:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well think about it.. if he is looking at other women and don't want you to touch him and he says your touch feels like his creepy uncle.. god that should have been a pretty good hint.. plus if you were listening it should have hurt your feelings enough to dump his butt then.. but apparently you are waiting for him to cheat on you to get out.. I would probably say he already is ..so move on find someone that will make you happy.. there are alot of men out there , I know there are a couple out there that are worth you time..
go out have a good time and get rid of the guy..
just dump the man..
2006-09-01 09:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm i hate to tell you but that is EXACTLY what he wants you to do! He wanted you to leave him so he wouldn't have to! WHY? cause he is a coward!! WHY does he want to leave you? i have no clue i don't know u guys. HOW do i know?? I am a guy and when i was younger i pulled the same stunt. I didn't want to break it off even i was banging someone else cause i still careed for her, so i acted like i was n't interterest and didn't want to be touched anymore.
Think about this one... one guy DOESN'T want to be touched y a girl he has been with for 2 yrs?? that is your answer!!!
2006-09-01 09:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you some thing i lost 30 pounds in 4 weeks and only 15 no i dont do drugs and no i dont do crack non i dont drink AND NO I DIDNT STOP EATING i was eating the same just drink alot of water and eat aloti mean aloty of ICE AND WATER AND I WALKED LIKE 400 TIMES A DAY DAY AND NITE SO IF HE DONT LIKE THE WAY YOU LOOK THEN TELL HIM THERE IS ANOTHERR PERSON OUT THERE THAT WILL LIKE HE WAY YOU LOOK NOW
2006-09-01 09:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl28607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its over he doesn't want you anymore sorry if this answer hurts my ex went like that but when i lost weight he suddenly wanted me again i told him where to go and how to get there in a hurry he didnt want me for me
2006-09-01 09:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by angel 36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dud - dump him
2006-09-01 11:25:13 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the chump.
2006-09-01 09:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by kristycordeaux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's not participating anymore and it's just a one-way street then it's time for you to move on. you're still young..
2006-09-01 09:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by dede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋