Hi>>>this is my problem i have every thing that every girl wants i have a great job but inthe past i lost my lover and this was because in that time he didnt understand my feelings my ambitious and even i didnt find him that he would be the good husband for me so we left each other but now all my friends get married and some of them have children although i'm only 24 but iam so lonely and i afraid that i will never find the right man >>>
2006-09-01 02:13:17 · 19 answers · asked by redrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take your time dont rush!! believe me .....it'll happen when it's supposed to......enjoy this time you have.
2006-09-01 02:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER settle!!! Always hold out for the right one. Who knows, your friends could be divorced in a few years passing the kids back and forth like sheep. But, you are being smart holding out for that special person you are meant to be with. When you find the right man everything will change in a split second. You will have no doubts about being with him and/or fears. You will be completely comfortable with your decision. You're still young and discovering who you are and what you want. I was in my 30's before I really understood what it was that Sophialinae wanted. Also, you need to remember that just because someone is with a partner doesn't mean they aren't lonely. Some of the most lonely people I've met are married. I'd rather be alone and available when the right one comes along. Don't you agree? Good luck to you and God bless!
2006-09-01 09:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
24 is not old. you are not at the time of your life for fun. don't get in a hurry. how much fun do you think your married friends are having with there kids. trust me it is better to be single than sitting at home all the time worrying about the husband and kids. they can stretch you then. you forget who you are. there's good and bad on both sides.
2006-09-01 09:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by maxossa1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go take classes in something you find intresting.Then even if Mr Right isn't in them you will meet people who might know Mr Right.And learning how to make stained glass or a new computer skill is better than sitting at home alone.
2006-09-01 09:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by blondecarpenter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why rush things? it took me until i was 34 to find the right man! your time will come. dont settle for anything other than a great guy who will treat you right. i know you feel lonely but when you are least expecting it a great guy will come along and sweep you off your feet. everything takes time. especially love!
2006-09-01 09:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be so sad you are still verry young and I'm sure there's someone for you to.
Having a boyfriend shouldn't be a prioraty for you.
maybe you don't realise what are the advantages of being lonly, you can do different things without someone's opinion also you shouldn't be with a guy just to have a boyfriend, he must deserve you
2006-09-01 09:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by MARILU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marrige isn't something you do because your friends are doing it-I had a xgirl friend that wanted marriage so bad she left me and it was because her younger sister got married before she did.I had just got a divorce after 16 years of marriage so I wasn't ready.Besides I figure marriage is about love and being loved and not about ego.
2006-09-01 09:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be able to find the man at the right time,
don't get desperate. I got marry at 30 with
no problem. Enjoy your life.
2006-09-01 09:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by pagemitre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will.
Stay positive & 1 day outta the blue he'll drop in2 UR lap.
:)
2006-09-01 09:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its somebody for everybody. ur time to get married has not come yet. be patient. trust me. i have a friend who is VERY young married with kids and she is not happy.
2006-09-01 09:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am right here hun...living in Gaylord , Michigan..
only problem is my daughter wouldn't like you...
she is older than you by 11yrs...
LOL
2006-09-01 09:18:22 · answer #11 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋