I just found out my husband was talking to someone at night like 2 3 in the morning and i need to know how i can find out who he is calling with out his phone because he wont let me touch it even when hes sleeping he will wake up if you touch it and he sleeps with it right beside him help plz!!!!!!!!!! help
2006-09-01 02:01:01 · 30 answers · asked by Liv_liv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Holy crap Batman! What type of an untrustworthy relationship you in. He's calling people in early morning hours and not telling you who. And your not permitted to touch his cell phone. Something wrong in Gotham City here. Take a good long look at your relationship and try and communicate with your man about honesty, respect and responsibility. Good luck to you.
2006-09-01 02:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty easy. Request a copy of the call list from his phone provider. A cell phone company has a complete record of the calls made and received from that number. All you have to do is request it, and in some cases go online and you can get it there. First of all, are you crazy? If he has something to hide from you like that, then just confront him, and say "what are you hiding, and who are you talking to at that time of night"? You need to wake up and smell the coffee girl! I would bet any amount he is having an affair with someone. I know you should respect your partners privacy, but this is not normal. What ever happened to an open and honest relationship? You could go to radio shack and purchase a voice activated tape recorder and plant it where he talks on the phone at. I feel sorry for you, as I know how that would make me feel. Good Luck!
2006-09-01 09:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will most likely get mad at you if you are going through his numbers on his phone and then he will probably tell you that you're the one who cannot be trusted because you are doubting him. Since you have to stay with him, tell him that you will behave in the same way that he does and ask the question, is that okay with him. Some men think it's okay for them to cheat but don't want you to cheat. Some men think it's okay for you to cheat but don't want to cheat. Some men think it's okay for you both to cheat. Then, a few men are normal. Hope you can clear it all up soon. But if he is managing a company business 24/7ths it could be an entirely differant situation then I would not know what to think.
2006-09-01 09:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Slick1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Request a copy of his phone bill, like if you (him) lost him and needs a duplicate, have them send it to a different location...
maybe it works and you will see the number ...but wait, stop, you already know he is talking to someone "forbidden" such as another woman (or man) and he is hiding this from you ( I call that cheating).........your question should be Do I want to know? and what would I need to do, if I find he is cheating?? That is your real problem!
2006-09-01 09:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Pi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't snoop around. Ask him outright and if you don't get an answer that makes sense or an answer you like - guess that will tell you it's time to discuss this marriage. Guards his phone? Something fishy going on. Talk to an attorney &/or a counselor asap.
2006-09-01 09:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if hes being like that with his phone obviously hes hiding something he dosent want u to know about and i would confront him and let him know you know.If you just want the proof write or call his phone provider saying you want a detailed call history statement on that phone.And if you find out hes cheating id dump him so quick.Good luck girl
2006-09-01 09:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you view the bill for the phone? Get the mail first, or check online if both of you are on the same plan.
2006-09-01 09:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Meggz21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your ****-uation. Doesn't sound good.
You're going to have to go to one of those spy stores, they're all over the internet, and purchase a bugging device. I think they're pretty innocuous so he'd never know it's on there.
Darn, I hate hearing stuff like this. Good luck.
2006-09-01 09:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey.....just ask straight: " who the hell were you talking to" and ask for a divorce. If things reached a point where he sleeps with his phone to wait for a call.....your marriage is so over.
2006-09-01 09:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Karen ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write the phone company under his name for a copy of all out going and incomming calls, then watch the mail
2006-09-01 09:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋