2006-09-01 01:12:14 · 17 answers · asked by Poet Master 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry it is quite normal. All people have a biological attraction to the opposite sex. And even though your happily married and would never act on these impulses it is normal to have them. That is just how nature works. It's not wrong to look maybe not while your spouse is there but everyone does even them. It's impossible to not do. So don't worry your normal so look but don't touch lol. Have good one.
2006-09-01 01:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are normal. I am happily married ...I don't just look at other people I day dream about them having sex. Almost everybody!! :( But, there's nothing I can do about it..I have tried to block it from my mind... but, I am constantly picturing people having sex... attractive people,ugly people, fat, skinny...and on and on!!!! You are normal...me on the other hand..... maybe not so much ! ha!
2006-09-01 09:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by hthr34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal. Men ( of whom I assume you're one ) are very visually oriented, particularly when it comes to the opposite sex. It's hard-wired into our genes to look at women. When it becomes a problem is if it bothers your wife. Try taking with her about it and see if the two of you can reach a reasonable compromise.
2006-09-01 08:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in looking at the opposite sex as long as you maintain your distance and relationship. Look but not for long so as to attract the attention. If prolonged it may lead to admiration, intimacy, relationship and finally... touching ... and what not ...
2006-09-01 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by dukes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are human, so you're going to look. It is completely normal. It doesn't mean you love your spouse any less. Just keep in mind to not go overboard. Don't make comments or look too hard cuz then it is just disrespectful to both your spouse and the person you're admiring.
2006-09-01 08:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. Most men look at other women.
2006-09-01 08:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone can look at anyone they want to BUT, only if you are "LOOKING". don't look to see if you still have it. you said it, you are happily married so nothing is wrong with it. married women look too.
2006-09-01 08:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by why?? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal. As long as you have an ounce of testostrone in your body and one good eye, you will look. Just don't slobber on yourself.
2006-09-01 08:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just looking is not against the law but there is a 5second rule if you look longer than 5 sec that's a problem
2006-09-01 08:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look but do not touch! It is perfectly normal to noctice attractive people. I do-----and I'm a woman!
2006-09-01 14:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋