I have a friend, I told her I love her so much but she says she just likes me. We have wonderful time toghether everyday. whenever I don't speak to her for some reasons, she gets very nervous and upset. She just keep on saying she only wants to be in friendly relation. But the problem is, I am crazzzy for her. how should i convience her? Any geniune ideas!!?
2006-09-01 01:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by LemonPro 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you want to change anyone's attitude towards you then you have to change your attitude towards them first.
Why does she get nervous and upset if you don't speak to her? She sounds very insecure.
Stop telling her you love her, she may feel trapped in to too heavy a relationship with you and feel smothered by your attention.
Just chill out relax and keep your distance, smile often, laugh and joke with her then walk away, don't think what your sharing is a cue to move in closer, is that when she starts to shut down on you?
When will you guys ever learn, it's always the woman who makes the choice not the guy, so if she only wants your friendship, tell her you understand and you will have to look elesewhere for love. But mean it, insincerity is manipulative.
If it is only your friendship she wants she will be happy for you and for herself, if not...?
2006-09-01 01:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cant make her want anything more than b friends if thats all she wants. dont get too heavy with her or u will lose her as a friend. maybe in the future she will want more but right now just concentrate on being friends
2006-09-01 01:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by Barson 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this girl knows how great you are and wants to keep you around her finger ,but, also be able to do whatever she wants. She knows you like her and she is taking advantage of it. If you can deal with that stay close to her ,if you can't- tell her you know what her game is (which she will emphatically deny) and cut her loose.
2006-09-01 01:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force a person to love you. If she just wants to be friends with you then you just have to respect her decision. It hurts but thats LIFE!
2006-09-01 01:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by Meeya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be she is giving a wait or she must have never thot of tht type of relationship with u........she likes u,n she is ur best frnd is,than she stayz wth u ,so,atlst u can b happpy,i dnrt knw way i said u got iy or not...n reme 1thng LOVE ALWAYZ HURTZ...,N DNT KNW WAT 2 SAY U,BZ I WAS NVR 2 IT
2006-09-01 01:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the problem is convincing her. She believes you. Why don't you believe her?
2006-09-01 01:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by CMW 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make it more confused.
2006-09-01 01:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by saz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a girlfriend,then see how much she likes you then.
2006-09-01 01:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋