She doesnt flirt back, but when im witht hem both, i cringe up, i just hate them together, i ruin my own day when nothing bad has happened, she just flirts with him.
I went a bit too far today on explaining this, so my gf got mad, saying she needs space, i am an ***hole, and she can have boys that are friends if she wants. Im fine with the first and last points, theyre true, maybe the second is a bit harsh, but what do i do? Sho wont even talk to me.
2006-09-01 00:57:15 · 6 answers · asked by YouDontKnowMe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I think u should let your friend know you are uncomfortable when he flirts with her as well if you havent already, after all she is your girl and as your best friend i think he would understand and stay away from her while she is taking space and unless he has intentions toward her i think he would respect your feelings and stay away .she maybe upset and think you dont trust her or that you are trying to control her. they may just have playful personalities and dont mean anything by flirting...that may be some things she is rethinking in your relationship, but i dont think i could accept my best friend and my guy behaving this way if they knew it bothered me and it obviously must bother you how they flirt.its inappropriate of a best friend and a girlfriend of yours if they are hanging out while she wont talk to you( because your best bud should be supporting you) and if they cant understand that...time to move on.
2006-09-01 02:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by smilingbluelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear n feel you brother! Reverse psychology always works.
GIve her a bit of what she is giving you. May be get close to her friend n behave the same way she n your buddy bahves. when she does bring it up then you explain to her what you ment in the beggining. It ought to work - worked for me
2006-09-01 08:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Buyakasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why dont u and she talk and make things up? First of all,apologize,then tell her what you feel and ask her politely whether she accepts it,if she doesnt,then its not her fault as all people are interested in different people,but only when they see them.But in reality,they only love their true friend.
2006-09-01 08:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sachin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just have one thing to say ALL GIRLS FLIRT!!!
ur an asshole too,next time try TALKING TO HER ABOUT IT,not going YA for help
2006-09-01 09:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump her, and i bet she'll be with your best friend inside the minute... she sounds like she doesn't respect you... and i don't think you are being exactly fair with her...
2006-09-01 08:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
apologise and promise to behave next time.
2006-09-01 08:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋