The girl was dating one of my sons, then switched over to the other one.What do I do to make them see shes not the one for them????
2006-09-01 00:52:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh leave her and them alone - - - it is none of your business.
2006-09-01 01:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make them see anything, they will have to see it for themselves. The more you express your dislike for this girl to your son/sons, the more he/they will desire her. Make sure you keep close tabs on her, and be friendly to her when she comes around.
Incidentally, how old are your sons, and what is it about her that you can't stand except that she is having sex with your twins?
2006-09-01 07:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by spency 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely their having fun. I wouldn't worry to much as they'll probably use her and let her go. I know it sounds rough but thats reality. Men will have fun with a chick who they want to do, but don't plan to marry. I wouldn't worry to much, let them have their fun without your interference and eventually she'll disappear. You didn't mention how old your twins are, but if they're passing around a gf then they're not serious.
Good luck!
2006-09-01 08:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by Redeft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Butt-out. Let them make their own decisions. The only thing trying to stop their relationship is going to do is lead to lots of fights and drive them away from you.
2006-09-01 08:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do. the more you complain the more they will defend the girl.
just let them make their mistakes and they will learn from them.
it's like burning your hand on the stove when you are a kid: you have to learn it the hard way - it doesn't help if your mom tells you that the oven is hot and you should not touch it.
2006-09-01 07:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by 42 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my daughter was a teen, I discovered that if I did not like one of her boyfriends, and wanted to get rid of him--I would pretend to love him to death.
Teens often rebel, the attraction is because you hate it.
Take that dynamic out of it, it won't be so much fun anymore!
2006-09-01 07:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by ms_books3736 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you cant do any thing i know because i was with this girl my dad couldnt stand and he tried to talk to me but dont worry it will all play out the way god wanted in the end god bless
2006-09-01 07:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by djacidrane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them see how much of a Jerry Springer show candidate she is.
2006-09-01 07:54:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they will get bored of her one day... you can't do much, because everything you say against her makes them stay with her... illegal things are fun...
you should send them away somewhere to meet other persons... or to the army.
2006-09-01 08:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by bizkit_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋