how did you deal with it
2006-09-01 00:44:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Not to my knowledge, how freaky and scary would that be, there is something seriously wrong with people that stalk others, they need help big time, hope I never have to suffer that fear or worry.
2006-09-01 00:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was young. It was my boyfriend at the time doing it with a friend of his who had a crush on me. He was abusive. I broke up with him and it got worse. They broke a window at the school and dropped the hammer on my front lawn, prank calling me many many times a day, he used to follow me all over the place asking me why I broke up with him, and then when he moved to Florida from NY, he stopped at every state and pranked me collect telling the operator I was my then boyfriend when he was sitting right next to me.
Once he moved away from me it stopped for the most part except the occasional call from him to see how I was doing. It ended about 2 years ago, 15 years later, when I flipped on his a** because he told me that his gf after me hurt him more then he hurt me (now he was emotionally, physically and sexually abusive, on top of the stalking). I screamed at him so hard and loud, told him to never call me again and if he did I would call the cops and have him arrested for harassment.
Took 15 years, but it finally got done.
I hope that you don't have to deal with it for as long as I did.
2006-09-01 00:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was all very scary, a customer from work became infatuated with me and things got rather ugly - with him following me, waiting outside places I visited, threatening my partner etc. Even from prison, he would write to me.
After the first couple, I stopped reading his letters, and when I saw him after his release, I pretended that I didn't remember him - him thinking he had made no impression on me started to get the message home that I was not interested. I also moved cities (for another reason) and though he told others that he was trying to track me down, he never did.
He committed suicide, nearly two years ago, and though it was hard at first, I feel no guilt now, just pity - he was obviously unstable and I don't believe anything I did, or didn't do, could have changed him
2006-09-01 00:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by angelina.rose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah by an ex-boyfriend years ago. he saw me leaving a club with a lad and jumped him as well! then a couple of weeks later he stalked my house so i called the police. it calmed down though and he left me alone in the end. i think his mates had a word with him. i've seen him since and he's still a complete weirdo. don't ask why i went out with him, young and naive.
2006-09-01 00:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by CazW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad is a policeman he dealt with it,don't try and sort it out yourself it will only aggravate the situation ,its the worst thing i have ever had happen to me and it went on for 4 months before i realised what a creep he was xx
2006-09-01 00:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Got a restraining order. He broke it multiple times. He finally went to jail after attempting to break down my door.
2006-09-01 01:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stalked back.
2006-09-01 00:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalked everyday mate... deal with it, God is good, he has dealt with it and will continue to deal with it with regards to my life, then he wil deal with them.
2006-09-01 02:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by HOPE 4 THE FUTURE: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Called my lawyer got a restraining order and got my first gun!! He went to jail and I sleep better! A long time ago!!
2006-09-01 00:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Star of Florida 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, I've had two recently, letters on the doorstep and all that. I just carry on as normal, I find it amusing.
2006-09-01 00:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋