I have had suspicions for nearly 9 months that he has been carrying on with the chic next door. Confirmed with phone bill. Contronted said yes only a 'grope'. ! thank you very much as if that's okay! Bought an extra phone so they would not be detected on our phone bill. Silly boy left message on phone indicating another phone existed. Anger is building.
2006-09-01 00:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jan Frost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay...first off I would confront your husband with your proof of his infidelity. And don't back down if he says he never did anything with her. Fact is he was thinking about it so that counts. Second, you have to decide if you want to give him another chance. If you think you can get past this and learn to trust him again, then you guys should sit down and have a serious talk. Perhaps some counseling would help. If you decide you dont' want to try and work things out, then grab a frying pan, smack him in the head with it and then go next door and beat the hell out of the neighbor chick. She knew you existed so she is just as much of a** for allowing it to carry on.....
2006-09-01 00:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a louse. If I were in your shoes I would confront the two of them (it takes two to tango) and demand an immediate end to the affair.
Your husband is unfaithfull, and probably will continue having affairs. The fact that he found a way to continue the affair after the original confrontation means that he is unrepentant and doesn't care about your feelings.
I could well understand you not wanting to have anything to do with him, but often times it's easier said than done to terminate a longstanding relationship. In any case the future of the relationship is in your hands, and you should do what you feel is best for you.
I wish you strength because I know your are going to need it in these trying times.
2006-09-01 08:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck with all that confronting him nonsense.
He obviously thinks that he isn't doing anything wrong.
"Only" groping? What kind of B.S. is that? Obviously it's a lie. You don't go set up a whole new cell phone acccount over a little touchy feely.
Confronting him about it will get you some more lies.
He doesn't think you're smart enough to know what's going on.
He doesn't think that you have the guts to leave him. He thinks you'll stick around and put up with his crap. He thinks he has you, and will get away with screwing around too.
Leave.
Don't come back until he agrees to go to counseling with you.
He'll also need to make arrangements to move to a new neighborhood, cause next door just ain't far enough away.
All this crap he's pulling right now is kind of fun. Sneaking around. Catching up with her on the sly. It'll get right old when he is free to decide to hang with her. She has no morals. Your husband doesn't want her full time, he wanted to play, not set up house with her. If he really wanted her, he would have left you, and then got with her. He knows exactly what kind of slut she is. He knows she'd do the same thing to him if they were together.
Dump his butt. Let him wallow, by himself in his mess.
Good luck
2006-09-01 08:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes cheated - for me it would be so simple, id end it with him. i would have left him after hearing of the so called grope.
some people are willing to forgive an unfaithful spouse, some are not. the truth is that once a person has cheated they will most likely do it again - dont give him that chance.
even the forgiving type has gotta know that their cheating spouse wont stop what they are doing if temptation is nearby - such as at work or a local resident. hey, they may end it for a while, but as soon as you guys have a bad day he will be cheating again.
i would end end the relationship - he is continuing to put you at risk from sexual diseases. i wouldnt be angry at this point, i would be planning my cold revenge.
2006-09-01 07:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really need the entire Yahoo! community to figure out an answer? You are so stupid, why are you telling everyone that your husband is having an affair? So, what exactly is it, do you not satisfy him in bed?
2006-09-01 07:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by irishsdm74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get a few naughty text messages but there is nothing going on, for me it's just a bit of fun
2006-09-01 07:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contfront him with the evidance. Don't let him think he has you fooled when he is the fool. Also get yourself a good lawyer to take him down. It is not worth being hurt by a jerk!!
2006-09-01 09:55:44 · answer #7 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT WORTH GOING TO JAIL OVER ,PACK SOME OF YOUR THINGS, GO TO A FRIENDS HOUSE 4 A LITTLE WHILE ,WHEN SOME OF YOUR ANGER HAS GONE DOWN ,LET HIM KNOW THE SECRET IS OUT ,AND GO FROM THERE
2006-09-01 07:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at all the things he's kept from you. And please tell me you don't believe it was only a grope. You need to kick him to the curb.
2006-09-01 07:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You too start an affair with me.
2006-09-01 07:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by Red Scorpion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋