my partner has gone off sex totaly she is 21weeks preg she says she would like to have sex more but is never in the mood. this is her 2nd preg got a 10mth baby.i always tell her i love her and that i think she is very sexy and that i love her body.i cooked her a candle lite dinner the other night with romantic music on in the background and she still didnt want it.i have tryed alsorts of stuff and just getting to the point of not knowing what else i can try.
2006-09-01 00:22:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
wow...you guys didn't waste any time!
Her hormones are just crazy right now...just be patient!
Good Luck
Blessed be!
2006-09-01 00:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK sweety its so normal for this to happen I'm currently 32 weeks preggers with my 2 as well and my husband is asking the same thing see what it is you feel so much pressure while having sex that it makes you feel uncomfortable not to mention when you get to the last few months and you have another baby that you are taking care of you feel so tiered and warn out that sex just does not size up to feeling sore and fat. Just give it time i know it hard for you to understand but its is for us as well my husband has been helping me out at home which has been helping me which gets me in the mood because I'm not so tiered but its time once this baby is out she will want sex all the time trust me i will be strapping my hubby down when i have this baby to make up for lost time.
2006-09-01 00:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you i really do but i feel more for your partner she is pregnant and will be feeling run down as her body is caring for two now and you also have a 10 month year old baby to take care off as well
some woman when pregnant just dont want to make love no matter how romantic you make your home does she now how you feel? have you tryed to talk to her about this? but remember not to make her feel bad about your sexual needs she will be aware about how you feel and will no doubt feel bad for you aswell
She will no you love her body but her body is going threw a really dramitic change and you should allways tell her how lovely she is
as a lot off woman including myself do not like the weight they gain when going threw pregnancy
and all the other things that come with pregnacy
Have you tryed to give her a long nice massage with some oils?
Or a nice bubble bath to relax her body?
you know yourself that you can do other things that do not have to lead to sex and that leave you both satisfied sexually as well
i hope this helps my friend and congrats on being a father 4 the second time!!
2006-09-01 01:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by cottencandy2391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second pregnancy? and there's a 10mnth old?she should have gone off sex alot sooner.Don't they sell condoms where you live?She can't get re-impregnated if you sleeop with her now and i am sure she'll soon be back on sex.You guys sound like hormone driven people.
2006-09-01 00:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by wale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. But talk to her let her know, your sex drive needs satisfying . Don't press, gently ease her into sex ... I also know that if you lay off she will get suspicious & think you are getting it elsewhere.
2006-09-01 00:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by angelluvswolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'll be back on sex soon, Pregancy in the third trimester makes you really horny. Be prepared.
2006-09-01 00:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to understand her emotions dont force her talk to her about it
and solve it together
2006-09-01 00:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋