2006-09-01 00:19:01 · 10 answers · asked by sandra_simpsons27 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Most reserved people aren't intentionally rude, perhaps they're just uncomfortable in new social settings. I know I am. If you can read people's faces, I think you'll find the rude person will have an expression of boredom while the reserved person (shy) will sometimes look and most likely feel very awkward. It's easier when someone takes the time to draw the reserved person out of their shell so ask a few questions, the rude person will answer most likely with one or two word answers while the reserved person will give you a better answer.
2006-09-01 00:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to say from an objective point of view. The rude person would be behaving in a deliberate manner. A reserved person would be manifesting subconscious behavior.
The external characteristics might seem the same....apparent aloofness or shyness.
I have a hard time reading people in cases such as this. But over time I learned that there are more people who are reserved than there are rude.
Case in point would be the British. Their culture is generally a very reserved one...compared to the American culture. However, British folks are overwhelmingly polite but reserved...although many Americans I know believe that they are behaving "snobbishly."
2006-09-01 00:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by 4999_Basque 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rude person is often empty within and it is to cover up the hollowness within he behaves rudely. A reserved person is not sure of himself. He is diffident for he is not competent enough to handle the situation. He has a low-esteem. He is to be educated about himself and shown what potentials he has in himself. An awareness about himself will do a world of good for him.
2006-09-04 23:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rude person isn't typically silent. They often have loud and abrasive personalities. A reserved person makes no comment when they have a chance of offending someone but sombody who is rude will only remain silent if it is in poor taste to do so.
2006-09-01 00:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by Kitkat Bar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rude person does not care about anyone's feelings nor does he observe good conduct. He speaks whats on his mind does not care about propriety nor respect anyone. A reserved person is often shy and hesitant in his manners. He seems to be always trying to appear to be invisible and seldom speaks his mind unless and until he is prodded, and often he speaks only when spoken to or asked about a subject. His words are minimal and speech is short. He needs to feel that what he is speaking of is of importance and meaningful to you.
2006-09-01 00:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a rude person would answer someone's question very rudely and it will show on his/her face that he/she is annoid with some thing and he/she is not happy.
on the other hand a reserved person does not talk too much or does not meet with some one very easly. but a reserved person when speaks to someone he/she would speak in normal tone and temper
2006-09-01 00:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A reserved person is often just passive and does nothing or is hesitant. A rude person is someone who says or does something overtly unexpected and directed at someone.
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2016-11-06 05:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can judge by the look in there eyes !
but hum it doesnt always work :)
so you just have to wait and see
if it was a temporary person in your life you wont need to know and if it was a long term one you will know :)
2006-09-01 00:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to judge someone so fast? It would be rude not to get to know them before you make a rash judgement on them.
2006-09-01 00:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋