We had no support from her family but my family accepted her but we never lived with my family as my wife did not want to. Later on i discovered that she does not even like them to visit us or keep any kind of communication with them. was left alone as i did not have much association with my family & siblings & even slowly & gradually she stopped me meeting my friends In the mean time her family accepted her but not me. We had a daughter also in this duration. When my daughter was 7 she left me & shifted to her parents city 1000Kilometer away from my workplace. I was left alone & developed relationship with another girl. But I missed my daugher a lot & left that citi & job too & shifted to my wife's city 7 told her the truth. After I have accepted some more complecated restrictions she agreed to stay with me & I got a good job also there.
But now I came to know that she is looking for remarring herself. I have given all my money to her which she has used to purchase the property.
2006-08-31 23:44:06 · 20 answers · asked by akela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is no doubt that you have been fooled and tricked by your wife. It appears that you are still young enough to start your life all over. I would suggest that you do everything to get a divorce with amicable settlement concerning your daughter, with rights to visit. she is very little and will not understand the situation fully yet. But with time, she will learn about her mother's vicious nature and look up to you for comfort. That may take many years ofcourse, but since your case is so spoilt by your wife in the first place and by yourself confessing about your affair (which you should not have ever done knowing the possessiveness of your wife). But right now, I would suggest you start taking care of yourself and your future. Cut off all the conditions concerning finance with your wife. Put your money where your wife cannot imagine. Begin saving all you can NOW for your future. You have no future with your wife. Yes you have been a fool and it is time you begin to get smart for your own future. Good luck!
2006-08-31 23:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does someone really stop you from seeing your family and friends? Only you can stop yourself from doing that. You say she left you, and moved to where her parents live, but you dont say why she left you. While she was gone you had another woman, did you break her heart when you left to go back to your wife. Your wife agreed to stay with you, but you didnt know she was planning to marry? And you gave her ALL your money!! Sounds like your one of those men who put on a sob story very well and likes to twist stories.
ITS YOUR FAULT
2006-09-01 07:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours. I know when you enter into marriage you become One, but you never ever cut off all contact with family and friends just because your spouse doesnt like them. Because you find yourself in the situation that you are in now, and it is hard to go to people when you haven't spoken to them in a while. Don't let it get down and be a great dad to your daughter.
2006-09-01 06:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by sexylips232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it's mainly your fault. But not for what you're thinking. Your wife treated you like sh*t and you went back to her. You never stood your ground and she tood advantage of that. I understand you went back mostly for your daughter, but that doesn't mean you had to get involved with the wife again. You allowed yourself to get used. You knew how your wife was. I'm sorry for being so harsh, but it's true. Just remember an old saying my dad told me: "First time, shame on you. Second time, shame on me!".
2006-09-01 06:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U aint serious u have ur rights there is no way u gonna make somebody happy on ur behalf u ceded so much as in u gave in so much anywa its u to blame u have learnt next tyme dont fall in love blindly okay,move on
2006-09-01 06:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch her, dammit
if she remarries, go 2 court 4 the custody of the child.
or wait 4 some time. let ur daughter grow up & she herself will come 2 u.
2006-09-01 06:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you and your wife have seen relationship/family counsellors? They can be helpful in working out diffrences to see if the marriage can be savalged.
2006-09-01 07:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Peter_F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you decide fix the property issue.
If you split, your daughter is important to you make sure
you still have a relationship with her.
2006-09-01 08:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have left such a partner RIGHT AWAY...file a suit for a divorce...and ask for single custody of your child and give the above reasons to the judge.. you will definately win..good luck
2006-09-01 06:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by hellmaster_aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her fault to loose a great guy like you. But it will be your own stupidity to still be with her.
2006-09-01 06:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Taurus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋