she approached me when we met at the seminar where we stayed in a hotel for 5 days
2006-08-31 23:09:32 · 28 answers · asked by jc junior 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL JUST DONT DO IT SHE CAN NOT FORCE YOU!!!
2006-08-31 23:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by xsplodeit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The crazy thing about affairs is that we enjoy them immensely until the shitzer hits the fan and word gets out or the affair is discovered. Then we have to deal with the painful aspect of all the misery that we have provided to innocent, unsuspecting spouses and families.
Rarely do people involved in affairs go on to have successful relationships. The woman you are seeing is probably still in love with her husband but she has made a bad choice by having sex with you. You may be satisfying her but so what? There's a million guys that could satisfy her. She is probably running away from some marital problem by seducing you.
What about her husband? What in the hell did he ever do to you to have you spunking his wife ? What if he is totally unaware that she is even having problems? Why haven't she left him if he so terrible? What if he is a homicidal, jealous, slightly off balanced person who hears instructions from demons?
Keep it up buddy, no good shall come from this affair!
2006-09-01 07:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both married then you both deserve each other,if you are not married(you do not actually say)you should have said "no" in the first place when she came onto you(ring,or indentation of a ring,third finger,left hand,is usually a clue,her telling you she married is another:/)You are a weak man.Best advice?Be a man and end it,period.You say she "does her best to sleep with you frequently",does that mean you see each other outside of the seminar scenario now,or is this a permanent seminar for her to be trying"frequently"?Keep your pecker in your pants where "marrieds" are concerned,self-inflicted,no sympathy,deal with it.
2006-09-01 07:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it now before the husband finds out and finds out it is you.. then you will have to watch ur back.she might just like the fact she is having an affair more than you. hopefully thats the case and then it will be easier to do. say that you can't take this pressure anymore and sneaking around behind peoples back, you want to find someone else thats not in a marriage. and you think you have already found that person and dont want to cheat on her.
2006-09-01 06:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny Rae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you REALLY DONT WANT IT, you will find a way. But it looks like you are not sure. You dont seem to have the courage to tell her off. At the same time, you are thinking you might miss it all if you did. Just be man enough and tell her you are not interested in her and that if she wants a man so badly she should go elsewhere. Dont you know the simple basics? Communicate, communicate, communicate, and in simple words - just communicate. Be polite but firm. You dont want her to go around telling all and sundry what you had together ok? Good luck.
2006-09-01 06:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by someone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first question arises that ,"are u not married?"
Are u in love with her?
Do you feel that you can marry him?
If your answers are yes yes yes. Don't break this. One or the another day you both will get united.
If ur answers are no. Don't tell this to her that u don't love her.
Try to convince her this is good for none of you. If she does not understand.Tell her husband about her habit of adultry without telling your identity.
2006-09-01 07:39:37 · answer #6 · answered by akela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in serious trouble cos as what I can see, she don't seems to be happy with the spouse and she might not want to end the affair at all...
2006-09-01 06:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by pn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take control of the situation and tell her you simply cannot carry on with this. otherwise, i suggest you get as far away from her as possible if u don't want to end up with your blains blown out by a furious husband.
2006-09-01 06:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a choice and end it quick as soon as you can.You have a choice and exercises your liberty and freedom.
2006-09-05 01:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send pictures and a note to her husband.
2006-09-01 10:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still enjoying her company , let it go like this , otherwise don't do it the way she felt happy , she will take back seat herself .
2006-09-01 06:14:59 · answer #11 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋