my boyfriend wants to film us having sex but i am a bit shy, should i just do it anyway?
2006-08-31 22:30:20 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do , make sure that if you split up it doesn't end up on the internet!!
2006-08-31 22:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by johnny28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-24 09:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't accept, the danger of the film getting to a third party is too big. What if you one day have a big fight with him or break up with him, do you trust him? are you sure he will not show it to someone. My advice is don't get into a porn movie, unless you don't care if people see you having sex, and I mean lots of people.
2006-08-31 22:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful...The problem of any recording is that if you do not control where that porn is kept then it is very vulnerable to other people obtaining it.Also you have to think what would happen if you and your boyfriend split up. I would suggest making the the films and you keep control over it.
2006-08-31 22:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do anything you don't want to do. He should respect your wishes otherwise he's not worth it. Ask yourself do you trust him not to put it on the internet, show it off or sell it down the pub or blackmail you with it if you break up. Also I hope you've been together a few years otherwise you don't know him well enough. My friend was seeing a guy 2 years did it, and when they broke up he sent a copy to her mum. So think carefully.,
2006-08-31 22:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Will Tell You Yes if he is Your Husband
But Boyfriend Nope
well if he ask you
Tell him baby You Don't Need to be Lookin at us having sex on Tv
Whenever you want it Come and Get it Live
2006-08-31 22:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just dive in and experiment. If it doesn't turn out well you can just delete the film and try again, but in the meantime it'll build your confidence and you'll have more fun in general. Just been through the exact same situation except I was the bloke in the equation!
2006-09-01 00:25:12 · answer #7 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way if you do make porn and you split up how many people do you think will see it?
If your boyfriend loves you and you don't want to do it he will understand like with anything else, don't do anything you don't whole-heartedly want to or you could resent him for it later on in your relationship.
2006-09-04 08:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well the male in me says "YES, YES YOU SHOULD, IF YOU LOVED HIM YOU WOULD DO IT!!!!"
But in all honesty it's probably a bad idea, it's the digial age and he can have several copies distributed to his mates in seconds, Then there's the thing of how relationships have a habit of not lasting for ever and before you know it you'll be able to see your own rosey **** bouncing up and down on the internet for $5.99..
2006-08-31 22:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by joe r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your a **** with no brain yeah go for it.
Go ahead and abuse your dignity and self respect,
When you guys ever break up and you meet the love of your life and the tape shows up on the internet or at your doorstep...good luck to you.
2006-08-31 23:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no and NO!!
These films have a very nasty habit of surfacing in places you never meant them to be seen... i.e Paris Hilton, but they won't turn you into a celebrity just a sado, sorry.
2006-08-31 22:39:11 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋