wait until his divorce is final...
while you wait, date lots of other "available" men...
2006-08-31 19:56:23
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answered by Warrior 7
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He is not in love with you, he is in love with what he can do which is have his wife and a mistress. I would advise you to be careful with who you get involved with, and think about why you're getting involved with that person. He doesn't love anyone but himself. If he cheats on his wife, don't you think he will do the same to you. I can bet he will never leave his wife, and if you ask him why he will come up with all kind of excuses. If there is children involved think about how they would feel if they found out daddy was cheating on momma. I would suggest you leave that married man alone, and date someone single until you find the right person for you. Remember that GOD frown upon people that commits adultery. I think you deserve better than a man that doesn't take his vows seriously, sometimes we have to be careful what we get caught up in.
2006-08-31 20:06:41
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answered by venita.bryant0149@sbcglobal.net 2
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DON'T DO IT. It may be tempting now, but in the end everyone will end up being hurt and the most hurt will be you. He may leave his wife, he may not. I am not a psychic. I don't know. But I guarantee, whatever happens, someone will be hurt. Sounds like you are obsessed by a dream that will never be. Perhaps you are in love with him because he is stable and wants to make a commitment, perhaps you just want a power Trip, or maybe a bit of fun. Whatever the reason, I guarantee that if you truly loved him, you would want him to stay with his wife. You would not want to end up hurting him just for your own selfish needs. Find yourself a nice, available man. This guy is power tripping you to make himself feel good, that someone else could be in love with him. What sort of man cheats on his wife? A LOSER. Show him you are not interested by parading a new man on your arm and see if he gets jealous. Maybe he wants to use you as arm candy or use you as extra excitement in his life.
I speak from experience here, STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN. They know how to manipulate women because they have had a lot of practise at being in a relationship. They use it to their advantage. Good luck, but do not get involved with this man. You will end up getting hurt.
2006-08-31 20:05:40
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answered by sweet 70's child 1
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what do you want us to suggest? Shall we suggest you to be a marriage wrecker? or shall we suggest you to live like a kept?
Why don't you grown up?
Do you have guts to be a second wife (something like Hema malini)
But for that your man has to be a Dharmendra otherwise he is not worth it.
Look out for bachelors is what I can suggest. Already we have a poor sex ratio, on the top of it if women go after married man what will happen to poor bachelors?
2006-08-31 20:01:39
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answered by Anonymous
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ppl dont understand others situation i got your situation
do one thing think from his wife side ad continue your relationship as friends and slowly end it bcoz never trust a married man if you really love leave him alone '
just take time and think on this deeply where you want to end not as a second person in his life
we love many but we have to loose them some or the other so leave
live your life happly you'll get your man
2006-08-31 21:04:05
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answered by immine 2
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Run as fast as you can. It doesn't matter if you love him or he loves you, he has made a commitment of life and love to someone else. She is the most important woman in his life. Find someone who is not willing to turn on the woman he has made a lifetime commitment to because he was attracted to someone else. He is not trustworthy. There are millions of men out there who do not treat people like this man is treating his wife. Run.
2006-08-31 20:00:50
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answered by M L 4
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i think that u should step away, i mean think about it, he's married that means he gots children or in love with his wife, why would u wanna break that? and if he loves u, that probably means he's not happy with his other wife,so he needs to deal with that, so till then give it some time.u wouldn't wanna be hidding/ considered a home wrecker and commit adultary. plus what if he did this to u in the future??? how might u react?/? u wouldn't want the tables to turn on u.
2006-08-31 20:21:34
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answered by →Sasha← 3
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you don't mind sharing a man?if you havent known him long; watch out. dont count on him to be there. this is the time when you want to think. what if it was your husband?you dont think that a man that is doing what hes doing wont be doing it to you? ever?you might as well count on it.>>look at how others treat others; and you will know how they will treat you.<
2006-08-31 20:09:32
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answered by NONAME 3
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First of all you are trying to spoil a family life. I would suggest you to withdraw. Think sitting on shoo of his wife had she been you? There are plenty of men in this world. Choose one who is free and get married.
2006-08-31 20:37:35
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answered by knr 1
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be careful....u could get hurt.
U need to talk more with him abt ur future...is he happy with wife?
How does he feel for u?
There is alot of questions u need to check...
U need to consider the man's wife...does she deserve to be treated like this?
Shouldn't the man be sorting his own problems out with her first before continuing with u?
Girls fall in love very quickly and become attached to men...but men find it difficult to express themselves emotionally and may end up using sex to escape their problems.
How would u like it if u was in the wife's position and ur husband was having an affair with another woman??
Is this what u deserve? don't u deserve a man all to urself? wouldn't u like a man who belonged to u only?
Plz consider urself...this affair can change ur life and mess ur mind up too..
Have a think...good luck!
2006-09-01 07:07:22
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answered by Anonymous
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if he is separated fine have fun,if not he doesn't love you as much as you think don't you think he'd be with you instead of the wife, instead of you being on the side,like when him and his wife gets into it,your just a easy piece of tale ,find someone that's going to be with you ,and you only,and redefine love,because your definition isn't correct
2006-08-31 20:01:30
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answered by Anonymous
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