Besides going down on a girl, what's the best way to give a girl an orgasm? What positions cause the quickest and best orgasms? Is it better to do short-quick thrusts, long-quick thrusts, or long-slow thrusts, or a variety of all three? I know this question really depends on how good the guy is at sex, but as far as the last serious relationship you had and had sex often...
during a session of intercourse, does a girl have an orgasm... every session? every other session? occasionally? or rarely?
2006-08-31 19:33:22 · 8 answers · asked by abjr_86 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If the guy can reach to the G-spot... theirs really no question about it... it all depends if the guy can manipulate the Gspot and put as much pressure on it as possible.
2006-08-31 19:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls do not have orgasms from vaginal intercourse. Most girls have orgasms from stimulating the clitoris. If you can get the clitoris stimulated while also doing vaginal intercourse then it is even better. Guys need to realize this is the truth. They are always trying to just go at it vaginally and wonder why no orgasms is happening. All thrusts are great if you are stimulating the clitoris. If the clitoris is being ingnored then you can try to keep going but she will get bored and sore.
2006-09-01 15:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by marlenekay4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well - I'm glad that you care enough to ask. That says alot about you. I'm a gal who used to have sex with boys but now I have sex with girls so I feel like I'm in a unique position to answer this question.
1. As for the best way to give a girl an orgasm - I'd say yeah - going down on them is the ole standard. To make it go faster - after she gets used to your mouth on her, put her clit totally into your mouth and suck on it like you would like her to suck on you. When she really starts to get into it - bite ever so slightly. This usually does the trick. Some girls like real biting and some just like the gentle pressure - you'll have to determine this by the sounds and movement she makes (or you can talk to her). Also, don't forget to use your hands to put inside her or just rub her
2. As for other ways to give orgasm - the clit is the biggy. I personally like when my gal fingers me while her palm or forearm rubs across my clit. Now this takes a little coordination which I will only admit anonymously that I don't totally have. A little thing that I do that generally speeds things along is spread a gals legs a little more than they are already spread. Again, you only want to do this gently (unless she asks you to be a little more rough) If I'm using my hand on a girl she's usually on her back and I'm usually kind of on top and to the side front to front with her and I take my leg and put it between hers and use is to push her legs apart.
3 . As for the ole in/out. When I was with guys it went a couple of ways. If I had an orgasm first then I wanted hard and fast and deep and just everything the guy could muster. If I didn't orgasm first then I liked a guy to put himself in slowly with first shallow thrusts and then deeper (which he generally figured it was time for when I would push my pelvis into him) I still liked it to be slow until I got used to him being inside me and then we could work up to a faster and deeper pace together. You can really tell what your lady likes by paying attention to where her pelvis id going unless she is laying there like a stiff board in which case an orgasm or a talk to make her more comfortable would be in order.
4. There was only one time that I came during intercourse and that was after like 45 minutes with this guy making it so he was able to stimulate my clit while he thrusted. This was the only guy who was ever able to get into that kind of position and I couldn't even begin to tell you how he did it. Otherwise, they make a sex toy that you can wear on yourself that has something to stimulate your lady while you are thrusting. I think she'll appreciate it.
5. THere was a comment about how good a guy is at sex. The fact that you are writing this says that you are porbably excellent. so many guys either don't care to find out how to please a gal or they are too scared to ask. Either way, it doesn't happen. I'll bet you are going to get a few answers with some phone numbers or email addresses at least
good luck and yay for you for asking
2006-09-01 03:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by suzi7693 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to make a girl orgasm and that is to find out what she likes and do that. Girls are not made in a factory and are wired up very differently down there - if you want to make a particular girl orgasm ask her what she likes and then do that. what makes one girl ecstatic with joy will be another's biggest let down.
Another thing to do is make sure she talks to you and lets you know when you are doing well "Yes! Yes! Yes! That's it! Yes!" is usually a good indicator.
2006-09-01 03:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could try goin down on her..that seems to be the best way!...During sex try to get her knees up by her shoulders...then u can hit the "G" spot more easily...you'll kno if she does or not b/c her body will start to shake and twitch...gurlz normally orgasm every time during sex.
2006-09-01 02:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on the girl. Personally, I think the best is to stimulate the clitoris, and the g-spot simultaneously. - and where is the g-spot you ask? it is placed at middle depth or at the end, in both cases on the upper wall.
2006-09-01 04:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a good nuber of women find it difficult to orgasm thru intercourse.
2006-09-01 02:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by darcys_wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea! My boyfriend can't make me orgasm............
2006-09-01 02:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sallys 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋