2006-08-31 18:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by glad to help ^-^ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
shy in general or shy around girls? if in general, make it a goal to start a conversation with 3 people each day. doesnt matter the topic, weather, sports, whatever, just start them with 3 people you could care less about.
if with women, best advice i heard was go to a local mall some afternoon and smile and say hi to every girl you see. yes it will feel strange but it will get you used to the idea of initiating contact.
2006-08-31 18:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by handsomefunnyguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is always welcome when you share an important news item with people who have the same interests. If you like music, read through some important headlines and confidently and carefully share the details.
You might follow that by a joke that is in good taste and somehow related to that story or topic.
This is an excellent icebreaker! Be ready to share more if you get laughs...
2006-08-31 19:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Find funny in everything do not make life serious. I use to be shy and now I talk about anything. I use to think that if I said something to say it would probably come out stupid. You just need to get over that and let the words just come out. People will actually like to be around you.
2006-08-31 18:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read , learn , memorize and practice to deliver alone in your bedroom , then go and join any group , you will not be able to take back step without cracking a joke , and that's the time you need not to look back , people will follow you for more .
2006-08-31 18:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are kinda shy, just be yourself........I am sure that you are like my hubby (he's very quiet around the general population, but we have great conversations at home) you'll talk when you feel that you are comfortable........It's really a great tool to have, you don't have to worry about meaningless conversations with silly girls..............Take care and it'll happen when the time is right.........
2006-08-31 18:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell yourself not to be stupid, it's a perfectly normal thing to say and people won't think anything of it and they won't laugh at you because of it.
That's what I do when I have a thought in my mind which I could speak out loud but am too nervous/shy to do so. Sometimes it works but sometimes it doesn't.
2006-08-31 18:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sindri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i mean u can start by maybe if u see someone ur interested in approach her and start by sayin hi and see where that leads u and if u are too shy just give her a look and if she continues to stare then shes interested in u....i know this cause im a female and u can get my attention like that. so try it
2006-08-31 18:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
each and every person likes to talk approximately themselves... ask questions approximately himself which contain what hav u been doing at present? tht way he can tell u what he has been doing. hell be greater possibly to tell u the flaws in his day that he enjoyed and then u can look interested in those issues... he will develop into lively approximately talking bout issues he likes doing and consequently bear in concepts u in that comparable sturdy mild...sturdy luk :)
2016-10-01 04:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put things to talk about on 3x5 cards. Red Bull.
2006-08-31 18:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
rob a bank
2006-08-31 18:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋