After i think about something sexual, or masturbate, or anything like that, i feel terrible, very guilty. Im only 14, and just getting used to these feelings, and they SUCK! HELP!
2006-08-31 18:04:32 · 7 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
when I first started fooling around with myself, i felt guilty too- that's because I had nobody to tell me that what I was doing was normal. once i found out that every girl does it... and that god wouldn't hate me, which no longer bothers me anyway, I relaxed and didn't feel bad about it anymore. sex isn't dirty... sexual feelings and thoughts CERTAINLY aren't dirty. the only thing that really sucks about the whole thing is babies, diseases, and attachment feelings.
i hate attachment feelings.
2006-08-31 18:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by mad_fem_bot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad about it - it's really good for you to do this. I always feel really upset when I hear that someone is guilty about doing normal things like this. You are a great person and deserve to have fun and to be erotic with yourself when you want to.
You probably feel guilty because when you were a child people told you that the fun parts of your body are wrong and dirty. They are not bad at all and you are not a child anymore - you will soon be a full grown adult and will be able to vote, drive and do all manner of things - and you should think about your body in an adult way.
There is NOTHING in the world you can do with your body that is wrong unless you are hurting someone else. You must remember this and grow to love, respect and enjoy your body -and this includes all the personal parts which if you use them right will provide you with good fun for all your life.
Never feel bad about mastubating or any sexual thing. If you mastrubate 12 hours every day this is not a crime.
Have a great day.
2006-09-01 03:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you were taught that your body "down there" is a nasty thing, because you pee and poop from "down there", and while those things are disgusting, having sexual feelings is not. Someone else mentioned that you should be concentrating on your studies, and they're right, but you should also be aware of your body and how it works.
Masturbating is not a bad thing, just don't let it take over your life. The next time you go for check-up with your doctor, ask to speak to him/her in private, without your mother there, and ask all the questions you want. Your doctor should have all the answers you need to understand why you feel the way you feel. Good Luck!
2006-09-01 01:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is perfectly normal, and you have nothing to feel bad or ashamed of. To completely shut down the argument of very religious people... If they believe that God made us, then they must believe that God gave us all of our feelings and emotions... Why would he have given us sexual desire, and the knowledge of masturbation, if we are not 'allowed' to explore? At the end of the day, human beings, although more evolved, are animals. We have feelings and desires that help sustain the population. If you enjoy exploring your body, and the strong feelings if can bring, then enjoy yourself, and don't feel bad... You are perfectly normal.
2006-09-01 01:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Masturbating is not bad, it is god given feelings in every human being, so dont feel guilty
2006-09-01 01:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Shammi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because u r 14 u r guilty after it.at this age u must concentrate on ur studies
2006-09-01 01:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by golu 3 · 0⤊ 7⤋
I give up. Why?
2006-09-01 13:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by Annabelle418 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋