ok the guy im with hes a really big sweetheart but he has a temper. i dont feel like i can talk to him about anything and when im around certain people i feel like i cant be myself. im unsure of what to do.my brother and sisters said i shouldnt be with somebody like that, i just dont know what i should do.
2006-08-31 18:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by genuine1_0409 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I give options and suggestions...... i can NOT tell you what to do...... option 1. sit alone and think about the way you are feeling... option 2. sit with him and talk about your feelings... option 3. sit with a friend and talk it all out..... talking realy puts things in there place.... you will see more clearly afterwards...... look deap into your heart and you will know what to do.... loving some one is NOT always easy, it should be, but it just aint...... love is not always happy but it is soft and gentle, ALWAYS... so if you are NOT feeling soft and gentle ??? well, think about it...... God bless
2006-08-31 18:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that his temper is really effecting how you act around him, and give him the option of getting some help, or you leave. It's not healthy to stay in this relationship if you cant be yourself & cant talk to him about anything. It's hard but if he isnt going to change you should dump him so then you're free for the love you deserve. Good luck in whatever you choose to do..
2006-08-31 18:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you sound just like me. What I did was tell him that what he does hurts me. He changed. However, they don't all change. If you are really unhappy, then you need to end it now. Please, don't lose sight of who you really are just for a guy. They come and go, but you have to live with your choices forever, and your ultimate happiness is far more important than that. Be honest with him and tell him exactly how you feel. Do it calmly as you can. If he reacts by being a jerk, it's never going to get better.
2006-08-31 18:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by ReeRee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he ever let his temper go on you, like when hes not mad at you but just mad at a situation? If he does get rid of him it will get worse I am speaking from experience. You need to fell comfortable all the time. zGet out now b4 its too late. It will be okay never be affraid to be alone. Its a good thing.
2006-08-31 18:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by JustAGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be yourself ALL the time and it's because of your guy, leave him! There are plenty more to choose from that don't have bad tempers. You deserve better! I hope this helps.
2006-08-31 18:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m kind of person like your guy. even i have hot temper, i still know who she is to me. I still care her. Sometime I am kind of strict to my girl, but it happens coz of my love. Another thing is we are in long distance relationship. So I am worry that I will lose her one day.
So I think you should find out more about your guy. If he really loves and you really love him, keep on going. Dont break up.
2006-08-31 18:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by answers4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can't be yourself, then I don't think you can cheat yourself for long. If it is still early in this relationship, then find another one. It is unhealthy to force yourself to stay on and u don't feel happy. How can you last for the rest of your life --- you are non better than IN PRISON !!!
2006-08-31 18:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you not happy leave. Happiness is the ultimate goal. Don't let him dictate your life and make you sad. Stand up to him and voice your opinions. If that fails kick his sorry *** the curb. Take control and step up, if you do this he knows your not someone he can take advantage of.
2006-08-31 18:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is ask yourself. do you believe he's someone you can be with forever. if so then you should try to stay together if not move on and find someone who will complete you.
2006-08-31 18:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by thaliyah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not happy then get the **** out of that relationship!!!
2006-08-31 18:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋