for ppl with kids do u wish that u would have never had them and y?
2006-08-31 17:54:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No kids are the best thing you love them no way you would wish you never have them, Once you have kids your hole life gets turned around in a good way though
2006-08-31 17:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by Karina 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I look at my kids, and just thank God that I have them. They may piss me off to no end, but man, life was, and still is, and will continue to be, so much more fulfilling WITH them.
I mean, what did I give up when I had kids? Partying? So what? Hanging out with friends? I made new ones. Being able to go to the movies for under $20? One word. DVD.
To wrap it up, no, I never wish I hadn't had kids. Ever.
2006-09-01 01:00:41 · answer #2 · answered by ffxi_minizilla 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 kinds of regret...... the dont care regret and the heart felt love regret...... there are times I do regret, but NOT because I do not love my boys very, very much, but because of the way their lives are right now..... I regret the way I raised them, I want more of a do over, than really regret I guess...... I would stay home more, raise them in the country, teach them more, etc....... and TALK about life more with them..... we all have regrets and wishes for do overs in life....... but now we just have to do the best we can to make our lives and the lives of our children better...... if only with prayer !!!! God bless
2006-09-01 01:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my kids and they are my inspiration in my life. They bring me joy everyday no matter how much they try to get on my last nerve, I love them to bits. I would do it again and again, so worth it. Thank God for all children, if adults were more like kids we would just interact with people without judging first, find happiness in little things, and brighten up people just by fluttering a eye lash.
2006-09-01 01:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by roxane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not one bit. I had my son 5 months ago and he is the best thing that could have happened to me.
My husband and I got married a little over a year ago and had already decided that we never wanted kids (plus I was told that I couldn't get pregnant). But God had other plans and seriously, our son is the most beautiful gift that God has given us.
2006-09-01 00:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Having children is the most amazing, mind-blowing experience of my life--every day. Yeah, they make you nuts, they suck your money and energy right out, but what they give you Oh, so much! Joy and Satisfaction, Comfort, Love, Pride. My children will do the most idiotic, defying things and I will be mad at them for hours...but later, they will do something selfless or sweet, or even just give me a look, and I melt. I am still amazed at how we made these incredible people.
2006-09-01 01:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by steelypen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I regret having kids at such a young age,and also feel dupped into marriage. That is here nor thier. I am still married ,but shucks I would like to get out . i am22 years into this.
Kinda wierd sticking around. I support the kids wife and all.Thats because i would rather see where my money went than to see it go to some other dude. I even get the fringe bennies.
2006-09-01 01:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by plumbman_10 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good Lord NO!! Having children was the best thing that has ever happened to me in my life. They are a joy and a blessing. Mine are grown now, but they call me every day to check up on mom and make sure she is OK. They are what has made my life worth living.
2006-09-01 00:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, i have a 9 month old son, i left his father and moved 2 provinces away, i got taken by my lawyer, the father hates me now, he wants me to return, i have no idea where its all going to end up, i am stressed to the max being a single mom, but i would never change it for anything, my little guy is my angel and i love him so much, he's worth every moment. of course he can't talk yet, so i'll tell you then. i know so many people who want kids and can't have them, so if i didn't want him i would give him to his dad or if he was not available for adoption, to someone who will love them, they deserve it.
2006-09-01 01:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have 6 children and I would not have had the best life ever.I also have 7 grandchildren my world is so full of love I could burst.I could not imagine my life with out them.
2006-09-08 22:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋