I have an uncle who is 12 and I am 11. I dont have anyone to talk to. he understands me and respects my dreams. he thinks the same as me too. I dont have friends because they like getting into trouble and I dont. my uncle(12), I can talk to, he is the only one there for me. my mom and two sisters are in arizona and I am in idaho and my dad is in jail, and i live with my aunt. my uncles name is brandon and he is like my best friend. my sister samantha says its wrong for me to keep in contact with him and that I should leave him alone. samantha has ruined my whole life and always is bossing me around and she wishes I was dead. she is 14 and she has been in jail, shes preganent, and she is on probation. she has everything she has always wanted and brandon is the only one who doesnt push me aside. should I keep talking to him and ignore my sister? what should I do?
2006-08-31 17:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
iT'S NOT WRONGTO TALK TO UNCLE, just remember no incest. and no sex.
2006-08-31 17:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may want to reach out for some other sources of support--guidance counselor, teacher, church pastor, community resources. No one your age should be carrying the load you're carrying. You're being forced to grow up quickly. You should be enjoying your childhood years. Also, join some clubs and some church groups. You'll meet some friends that are decent and share the same interests as you. It will also give you a place to escape from everything that is going on in your life.
2006-08-31 18:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by salsera 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course keep talking to Brandon. Ignore your sister. She does not want to see you happy when she isn't. If Brandon is not a trouble maker and he is a good person, stick with him. I hope you are happy living with your aunt. Is she good to you, too? If so, then that may be where Brandon gets his understanding from. Good luck to you.
2006-09-02 07:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're writing a script for the Jerry Springer show. Unfortunatly 11 year olds don't write as good as you. It sounds like you are really bored and couldn't think of anything else to say at the time...
Clearly at this moment I have nothing better to do either otherwise I wouldn't have answered this...
2006-08-31 18:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by Judoka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First your sister doesn't have the answers,she has the problems.Your Uncle sounds like he might be okay.But don't be to thrusting ,until you know someone for a long time.Your at a age where you can influenced ,for the wrong reasons.
2006-09-03 03:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are talking only as friends I see no problem. If this relationship starts going in a more intimate direction I would back off a bit.
2006-09-02 14:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a true friend and very special. I know I would feel very secure because he cares. Unless you know reasons why you shouldn't confide in him, I hope your friendship with him continues.
I wish good things for you, take care.
2006-08-31 17:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you in touch with the producers of the Maury Povich show?
2006-08-31 17:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see any problem in having your uncle as best friend as long as u know ur limitations... u sure ur just 11?? im just wondering bec u are vy eloquent for that age LOL..
2006-08-31 18:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you aren't 11, and if you are I hope my kid types and spells like you when they are only 11.
2006-08-31 17:59:03 · answer #11 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋