2006-08-31 17:42:48 · 19 answers · asked by Artie 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I don't know. I've never been unattractive.
2006-08-31 17:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was in really good shape ( a few years ago getting out of the USMC) I was not lonely. People naturally want to be around you and will open up to you if you listen instead of thinking about how much more attractive you are.
Now I've gotten a little pudgy and my self esteem went out the window. Meeting new people is more difficult because of it.
If you keep your head in the right place you won't be lonely no matter what side of the attractiveness scale you are on.
2006-09-01 00:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by eyesinthedarkness 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can't relate to being "unattractive" but I don't think appearance makes a difference. What matters is your personality and if you do get lonely read a book or try something new like joining a club or get a hobby.
2006-09-01 00:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jack 'N' Box 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure of unattractive. But when I was in my early twenties I had a lot of people always around me, always wanting to be around a lot. THat was nice but then at times very weird. But women act horribly they always seem to yell at me all the time for no reason at all whether it is the check out lady at Shell, the service women at the airport, female professors, etc. Once at the gas station the women held my credit card for 20 minutes saying I threw it at her (who would do that), yelling and cursing me the whole time I had to eventually call the cops on her. My female professor gave me a F on a 15 page paper and I had a 4.0 GPA at the time. Another women at the gas station told everyone behind me that she was not going to turn my pump on and make me wait in the rain (a customer behind me told me that and said I should get her fired). It goes on and on. They are always degrading or yelling at me. I am quit sick of it. Then I had a professor stalk me and fail me, touch me, etc. I have had men put drugs in my drinks, flashed 5 times, followed, stalked, and I still have a private number caller after 2.5 years who calls sometimes 20x a day. It drives you insane. you do not want to go anywhere.
2006-09-01 01:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Angelcupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i like this boy for the past two years now and for some odd reason he wont go with me he always seems to go with unattractive girls and i asked him one day why because he had me feeling like i wasn't good enough and he told me because the unattractive girls wont cheat and run off and leave him like the attractive girls
2006-09-04 21:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Reese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I feel so sorry for you attractive poor people who feel so alone. You can never compair that to someone who is unattractive. Not in the least. Not even in the same category.
2006-09-01 00:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, because people think that when you are attractive you are too cold and don't have feelings at all and also guys are afraid to approach you because they think that you have boyfriend or that they are not good enough for you :(
2006-09-01 02:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've been lonely although I am attractive.
2006-09-01 00:47:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes if you are too attractive its hard to tell if people really like you for you or if they just like to look at you. or like being seen with you. so yes, it can be very difficult, especially when trying to figure out other peoples intentions. also, if you are attractive, people can become jealous of you so they ostrasize you so they can feel better about themselves and look better to others
2006-09-01 00:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by pittycolors 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yup. The same sex view you as a threat and the opposite sex like you only because you're pretty. Sometimes, the opposite sex even feel overwhelmed tallking to you they stay away.
2006-09-01 00:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by G K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's true. Most men objectify you and aren't interested in what you have to say (b/c they assume you have nothing to say). To them you're just eye candy, and women are jealous of the attention you get from men, so they don't even want to get to know you.
2006-09-01 00:52:24 · answer #11 · answered by wendy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋