I am attracted to a guy who is of a different race. Has that happened to you?
2006-08-31 17:19:19 · 19 answers · asked by Dune 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I believe the issue should be what makes the couple happy not race. I have traveled the world and lived in various countries for the past forty years and I have found that the majority of people around the world are interested in the same thing security, peace and happiness. But, I think it is foolish for mixed race couples to enter into a relationship thinking they will not encounter special problems. Cultural differences can create problems if you both do not strive to respect and be tolerant of those differences. I have seen many good mixed race relationships destroyed by friends and families so your commitment to each other has to be especially strong. It is easy to say, "I am marrying him/her not his/her family", but the reality is quite different.
2006-09-01 18:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by tom1941 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're great! Race does not matter, it's the person that matters and if you are happy together! So far, all the answers have been great! I wish more people thought this way!
2006-08-31 20:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by bikerbun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have the same color of blood ive yet 2 see white or black blood but what do i know.ive never had a desire 2 go out of my race but if it happens i wouldnt ask no ones opinions
2006-09-03 14:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a job, education, future should be more important than race.
2006-08-31 17:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all ,,,what race is there besides the human race that you are attracted too....shall i say more.....
Go for it baby....I have always been attracted to men of color...any color that was darker than my own.
Good luck
2006-08-31 17:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by bandaidgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm engaged to someone of a different race.
As long as you like them, it shouldn't matter what race they are,
Because you like them for who they are.
2006-08-31 17:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
And why the hell not? I have a strong preference for Asian women. There's no reason at all to object to mixed relationships.
2006-08-31 17:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They can be rewarding as long as you realize he is just flesh, blood, and bone just like you. I had this crush on this guy in HS (it was a oneside crush) and we had a blast. The highlight of our relationship was when he stood up for me, and showed compassion to me when when others were teasing me.
2006-08-31 17:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Spann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it hasnt happened to me, i mean i think some people of a different race are hot, but i havent had any emotional "lovey love" feelings for them, but i think its real cute. go for it! aint nothin 2 hide about!
2006-08-31 21:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by firefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..Being multi-racial myself, I find matters of the heart takes ruling over all. If someone is gentle, kind, and understanding, and have mutual feelings towards you...I see no harm. We all bleed red!! "2006 people! "
2006-08-31 18:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋