People who have regularly responded to my post would know that I have a lust problem. I have problem of objectifying and fantasizing about hot, sexy women, and also am suffering from masturbation and porn problems.
Right now, I am feeling the urge right now. The voice inside me keeps making me to fantasize about women and masturbate to porn. The irony is I often give in to it even though I know what damages it does to my soul, spirit, body and life.
I need spiritual support from as many people as I can. Like I said, the withdrawal symptom from my lust problem is so great that it is just making me go crazy.
Any support or help would be appreciated. God bless y'all.
2006-08-31 17:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by nicesinging1 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I met a couple once, who told me of having the same problem, but in their relationship. Their problem was watching pornography together, a lot. They either were or became christians and that is how they conquered this problem. Prayer and more prayer.
Perhaps if you tried looking into some activities, outside your sexual comfort zone (public places) you could get your mind off it and maybe meet someone, too. When you are home try to occupy your mind with something else. If you're watching t.v., watch a comedy movie or try doing some brainteasers on the internet. This is an addiction, like any other and getting your mind off of it as much as possible would be a really good start. You can do it! God bless you, too!
2006-08-31 17:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by feathereafter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey nicesinging1 !
Gosh fella, I've noticed that, in your statements, you never ask a question. Did you do that on purpose or was it just some voice from the head making you write things down against yourself?
I think your a pretty good writer because your grammar, punctuation and spelling are relatively good. You desire to be understood.
You have one big problem. I don't need to tell you whats wrong, in front of all the people who read these answers, do I?
I'm no professional, but, I notice things like inflexion, tone, content, construct, pluralisms, singularities and contractions.
You seem to demonstrate the use of these mechanisms in the way your write.
I'm sorry that I can't help you with spiritual support, although thats the only thing you actually "needed."
2006-09-04 02:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing i can tell you is to seek God. For goodness sake...he made you and he knows you better than you know yourself. I dont think there is anything in the bible specific about masterbastion being a sin, however the fantasizing is probably a sin because it consists of lust. Pray and seek God......
2006-09-01 00:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by bandaidgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you go to a support group and have a sponser? I don't know much about your problem, but any addiction can take over your life. My daughter did a college paper on sex addiction and went to a meeting, so I know they're out there somewhere. I hope you can overcome this problem. I am praying for you.
2006-09-01 00:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a hobby that doesn't include anything pertaining to your problem. Try working with your hands....learn to bake bread. Read the Bible...Do ANYTHING to get your mind off of it. Maybe you could learn to make things out of Duck Tape. There are a lot of things you can make...check book covers, wallets...just think of something and get your mind off that other crap.
2006-09-01 00:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by buzzbait0u812 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't checked your other questions nor answers
I'm answering only on the basis of this question..... sounds like you feel more guilty than ya shud - have you actually harmed anyone (aside from yourself?) You can heal yourself
In the meantime, remember, everyone has their own inner demons, whether they admit it or not
Sex is not the worst thing you can obsess upon
2006-09-01 00:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Annalyse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could have other underlining issues, that stem from Childhood, I am not sure how close you are with your parents or an adult friend you can talk to about seeking advice.
2006-09-01 00:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when these thoughts start to fade away from your conscious or sub conscious mind ......then you are heading for a problem..........until then lighten up on yourself and enjoy these feelings that someone much smarter than you or I decided to give us for a reason.....
2006-09-01 00:23:18 · answer #8 · answered by glass66vette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sis used to have a prob like that. she got counciling its a sex addiction...... u need to find the key to the problems!
she went to an esateric councilor and now she is one.. its more spirtual than drugging u or telling u that ur guna go to hell...
Good luk try not to ummm .. touch it. tehehe
2006-09-01 00:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by emalie_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, right. I think you like to post this garbage because you get off on it. Go get therapy, this is crazy. You sound demented.
2006-09-01 00:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋