I've NEVER gotten an orgasm from sex, only oral. Is this normal? I've had to fake them so many times, I'm starting to feel guilty.
2006-08-31 16:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by alwaysright 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Oh yeah, and I've only had sex with three different men in my life. Same problem every time.
2006-08-31 16:40:43 · update #1
Most women do not have orgasms from vaginal intercourse but do have them from clitoral stimulation. You are very normal. Dont feel guilty and if you are with someone and they are questioning it then explain it to them. Tell them what makes you orgasm.
2006-09-01 08:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by marlenekay4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are women who never experience an orgasm at all in their life. No your not abnormal. You just need to get in touch with your body there is 2 types of orgasms and you need to be aware of which is the right for your body.
Clitoral orgasms happen with stimulation of your cl it. Vaginal orgasms happen from penetration.
I'm pretty sure if you orgasm during oral sex, you have clitoral orgasms, I would suggest if you no longer feel comfortable faking them. Use a vibrator on your clit as you have intercourse, stimulate yourself during sex, or tell your partner to use his fingers to stimulate you.
I think that its much more close and romantic to openly tell your partner your likes and dislikes during sex and be open to them with what really pleases you. If you both open with your sexual desires and stimulation's then you can have that closeness of a spiced up sex life. Good Luck.
2006-08-31 23:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Lips of Morphine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone and definately within the norm. Alot of women cannot orgasm through intercourse alone...me included. Don't be afraid to help things along if ya know what I mean. When my husband and I have sex he or I will stimulate me at the same time. Most men find it a total turn on anyhow to have their woman touching herself for them to watch.
2006-08-31 23:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Orgasms come with experience of knowing your body. Sometimes you can squeeze the muscles in your vagina. Also any kind of friction on the clitoris will give you an ultimate orgasm. That way, you won't have to wait on the man to make you ***.
2006-08-31 23:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by Wednesday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, Usually gurls only orgasm duirng sex if they are really aroused. I used to have that problem, until I finally opened up and let loose. Keep on tryin'.
2006-08-31 23:53:48 · answer #5 · answered by *Proud Mommy Of 2* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know, cuz' I'm a virgin, but I can get an orgasm every 2 or 3 minutes(masturbating), so I wonder if I'll get em' during sex.
2006-08-31 23:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
only abot 20 percent of women have orgasms during sex...it's completely normal
2006-08-31 23:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop faking them and you'll start having them!Try using some mechanical devices or thinking about other scenarios....
2006-09-01 00:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't start getting them until they are in their 30s, and then with a vibrator first. I use on on my girlfriend before I have sex with her, she is 39.
2006-08-31 23:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's nothing wrong with that. don't feel guilty about anything, u should be thankful u can do it on your own. well, u might want to talk to your guy and tell him what u like and don't like. sometimes, alot of foreplay helps.
2006-08-31 23:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋