really think about the word "hate"
what is your reason for hating?
has your hatred faded, discipated or even turned to love?
2006-08-31 16:36:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, when I was younger I thought I hated a few people who were really mean to me. Like people making fun of you for no reason or putting you down out of jealousy, people who just made my life miserable. Then I grew up and learned to let it go, I also learned that hate is a bad thing to have inside you and will just make your own life worse because it eats away at you on the inside and makes you internally ugly. Now, I don't have time to dwell on negative things because life is too short and I am too busy trying to enjoy the great things that life has to offer. I didn't learn to love these people because they are still mean to this day, I just grew up and moved on because that is what was best for me.
2006-08-31 16:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by jjdanca18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I don't like to hate people but that is how bad I was hurt and upset.
The biggest incident is when I was a teenager and the leaders of my youth group embezzled money from the church in my name. I was very close to them. They were like my parents.
It took me 3 years to be able to forgive, but I don't talk to them anymore.
2006-08-31 23:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by B.J. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say I hated anyone but I disliked them! Hate to me means why are you still alive...and this is such a wasted emotion. I mean not only are you hurting yourself but you are wasting to much of yourself and life over hating someone. What a waste!
2006-08-31 23:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Zeta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate my mother in law. She is two faced, backstabbing,and fake. She actually called my mom to b*tch about me terribly(calling me a cheater, saying i treat my her son bad, i fake my illness, etc,), but was all nice to my face. And now she denies she said anything. *sigh* I just dont have time or the patience for that kind of drama in my life.
I doubt its ever going to turn to love.
2006-08-31 23:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by darcys_wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a strong word. I don't hate anyone. I might dislike someone, but I don't hate anyone
2006-08-31 23:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and it faded ,as everything does
it rarely turns to love
more frequently it is the other way round ,love turning to hate
2006-08-31 23:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are several people I hate. It would take too long to list each individual and my reasons. No, it will never become love.
2006-08-31 23:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a naive question.
I don't hate very many people; in fact, only one in my whole life. Believe me, he deserved (he must have died of old age by now) my loathing and disgust.
There ARE people who do not deserve your consideration. There ARE people who are loathsome and beneath contempt.
Not everything is beautiful in its own way.
2006-08-31 23:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since my father in laws death, a homicide, I do not hate the person behind it, I just feel nothing for him...like being numb.
2006-08-31 23:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I've never fallen in love with the guy who shot JFK, or my nephew
2006-09-01 00:37:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋