Can some of you girls help me out. I'm 24 and my girlfriend just turned 19. She claims she is a virgin, but everytime I play with her vagina, its very open, moist, and I am able to feel her inner walls with my fingers. She doesn't insert tampons, as her culture requires her to be tight (i.e., a virgin) at marriage, so that is a no no.... So is there any other way a girl can lose her tightness without losing her virginity?
2006-08-31 16:14:33 · 15 answers · asked by Robert P 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
righty tighty,lefty loosy.
2006-08-31 16:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is tight and what is loose ? I don't think there is a very quantitative measurement method to verify that.
Everyone's physical can be different. Even doctors can not make the calls on that for sure. Don't try to wild guessing it.
I hope you should know her by now. Do you think she would lie to you about it ? Do you think she is slutty or something like that ? You should have an idea already by now.
On the other hand, do you think it will make a huge difference in how you look at her and her relationship with you ?
Without actually knowing both of you, I think you should give her the benefit of the doubt for that.
2006-08-31 16:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Tightness" is not the same as "virginity". Obviously, to you virginity is technical (seeing as how you are already having sexual experiences with her, but not including intercourse). Hypocrisy aside, the state of the hymen is irrelevant to sexual arousal- which is why she physically reacts to your stimulation. It is about as voluntary as an erection- sometimes it's nice, other times it's a nuisance. BTW, tampons do not cause a girl to lose her virginity. The hyman stretches to fit anything small (like fingers). Do some research. Ignorance is not bliss- it is dangerous.
2006-08-31 16:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by BabyBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Virgin has a hymen, based on what you say she is not a virgin!
If your lucky enough to get a virgin ( Don't hold your breath) and you break the hymen, you will most likely have a very sore penis!
I suppose if she had medical problems they could have broke it, but that is highly not likely! She may have use sex toys, but t5hat's rather unlikely as well. It sounds more like she is telling you a story!
2006-08-31 16:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not haram using fact she continues to be untouched via a guy. Breaking of the hymen would not count variety as dropping virginity, and notwithstanding if a woman isn't a virgin this would not make her to any extent further unmarriable from a non secular point of view. All yet considered one of Muhammad's 12 better halves have been non-virgins while he married them.
2016-10-01 04:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by alarid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your girlfriend on the heavier side? Does she exercise or just sit around a lot? Believe it or not sometimes these things make a difference. Even if someone isn't a virgin, certain exercises and being active can reverse the effect.
2006-08-31 16:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Le' Chef 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tightness does not equal virginity. Not having had sexual intercourse is what determines virginity. Your girlfriend could have been born without a hymen, born with a very small hymen, or her hymen could have been broken during vigorous sports or play. What you are describing is simply the normal response of a healthy woman.
2006-08-31 16:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by eilishaa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be too loose, but many women's hymens have been stretched at least somewhat without having to have sex. Exercising can stretch it, a bunch of normal everyday activities can. Although, sex should stretch it a bit more, if she is a virgin.
2006-08-31 16:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by Violet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not necesarily need to have intercorse with a person to become loose...alot of action nontheless can actually do the same as having regular sex. So she might be telling you the truth...
2006-08-31 16:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she have any toys that shes played with? you have to remember, all girls are different. not every vagina is going to be the same, ifshe is a virgin and she tells you that, believe her, dont deny her. why do you question it?
2006-08-31 16:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by shortlilkorngrl929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably born that way. Not all girls are tight. It has nothing to do with how much sex one has had.
2006-09-01 08:13:48 · answer #11 · answered by marlenekay4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋