help... libra and aries.....?

Question

i heard that libra and aries are the worse pair.. is it true? wad can i do? my bf is libra and i am aries.. is it true?

Answer 1

When Aries and Libra come together in a love affair, the inherent polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are directly opposite one another in the Zodiac--180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks; combined with Libra's natural yen for harmony, this can be a relationship that enjoys great balance. Aries is the Sign of Self while Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and the differences continue: Aries is impulsive, excitable and ready to jump right into something new and exciting, while Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers a calm, smooth approach. Aries can learn from Libra that their own way isn't necessarily the best way. These two Signs share the great sexual attraction common to all Signs opposite in polarity. At the same time, though this pair's connection is amazing when it's good, it can be extremely challenging when it's bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings can't be reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Charming, cultured Libra can teach brash Aries something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths to maintain it. Aries is very decisive and can teach indecisive Libra about relying on intuition for answers. Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. This is a great match, as these are the Planets of Passion and Love, respectively. Venus and Mars go well together as they're the two sides of the love relationship coin. They're universally recognized as male and female and this relationship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. Venus is about the beauty of romance while Mars is about the passion of romance. What a good combination! Aries is a Fire Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and helps it grow and spread. Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra! Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. They both have a lot of initiative--but lack in follow-through. They both tend to start things they're never going to finish, whether it's a job, a project, a relationship ... Aries will appear to be the leader because of their energy and forceful nature, but Libra leads from an intellectual standpoint. Both Signs want to be in charge, but Aries uses force and sometimes intimidation to get what they want while Libra uses charm and sometimes manipulation. Compromise is essential to this relationship's health. Diplomatic Libra has a much easier time with compromise than does Aries, who strongly dislikes yielding to another person, viewing it as submission. Libra may have to give in more often to Aries's wishes in order to keep the peace that they so cherish. What's the best aspect of the Aries-Libra relationship? The harmony resulting from the union of Venus and Mars. The balance between self and other represented by this polarity is a great learning experience for both Signs. Each brings to the relationship what the other is missing, making for a wonderful balance.

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 2

Libra and Aries are opposite Signs and so they complement each other. If you both have a positive and growth oriented attitude, you can learn much from each other. Each of you has something that the other needs. Aries is a very self-oriented energy and needs to learn how to relate to another person in a one to one relationship. Aries is inclined to more energetic and Librans tend to be more laid back and easy going.
But Libra if not afflicted has the ability to tune into someone else and be a great team member. Librans will go to great lenghs to build a harmonious relationship with their partner, but they demand that their partner reciprocates. Librans will not allow a one-sided affair for very long. If their partner doesn't respond the same way they will get mad or else leave the relationship or both. Your birthchart does not determine you. It's only a set or more or less interrelated potentials and inclinations. How you respond to the challenges that a relationship will inevitably bring is up to you and if the two of you really love each other you can make things work out. But if one of you generally just takes while the other is doing all the 'work' then the relationship won't work out. Librans demand mutuality. But where are your Ascending Signs and where are your Moons? These would have equal bearings on the question of whether or not you have the potential for having a satisfactory relationship. What can you do? Dont listen too much to people who tell you that Libra and Aries is an incompatible Sign. Just get to work and build a good, positive relationship with each other and do the best you can and forget about the astrology.

Answer 3

NO, that is so untrue! I'm Aries and I've dated Libras......we always got along. The worst sign for you is Scorpio or Pisces. Libra and Aries get along quiet well. Libras are down to earth and peaceful. They keep the Aries grounded when it's temper gets high. LOL When I was single, I always attracted Libra men for some reason.......they just love Aries! LOL The only thing is Libra is too pouty acting sometimes and we can't handle that part of them. Libras can't stand conflict at all....whereas Aries loves a good conflict every once in awhile. But that's where the Libras help tame us. LOL
One of my lifelong best friends is Libra. She was the only friend that I've ever had that didn't stab me in the back.
Many blessings to you!

Answer 4

Here's the thing, when aries and libra are in a relationship it can either be really good or really bad. It all depends on wheather they can learn to fullfill each others needs. Me being an aries, i enjoy being around with libras. Honestly, i think this is a great pair if they learn how to deal with each other. You know what they say, opposites attract

Answer 5

Good news, Libra and Aries! As Sun Signs go… you and your lover share in what's traditionally called a Complementary Element.

What this beneficial placement typically means is that while the two you don't share in the same styles of thinking, communicating, and relating - the two of you do have the great benefit of understanding another and respecting the different ways in which the other person thinks, communicates, and relates.

Sharing a complementary Element will help out in the two of you truly having mutual empathy for one another and a mutual understanding of the other person.

When Aries and Libra form a friendship, the inherent polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are opposite each other in the Zodiac, 180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses what the other lacks, and when combined with Libra's natural need for harmony, this is a relationship of great balance. The polarity of Aries and Libra can be defined as Self versus Other, but the differences go beyond that. Aries and Libra are impulsive versus indecisive, excitable versus peace-loving, willing to jump right in versus preferring a calm, smooth approach. When they communicate and work together, Libra can teach Aries that their own way isn't always the best way.Signs of opposite polarity often end up sharing a great dynamic. Generally, polar alliances are great when they're good, but challenging when they're bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings are not reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Libra is charming, cultural and has good manners that divert some of the brashness of the Aries friend. On the other hand, Aries is far more decisive than Libra, who may waver. Aries can help their friend make decisions more easily and influence them to be more spontaneous.Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars, and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. The two Signs coming together form the basic foundation of alliances. Venus and Mars go well together. The symbols are universally recognized as male and female, so this friendship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy.
Aries is a Fire Sign, and Libra is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and keeps it going; Libra can be intellectually stimulated by the action and energy of Aries, and both Signs are always starting new things--they just need to learn how to do it together! When they combine their energies, they can do anything, but this can be challenging at times due to their polarity. Aries' action-oriented approach to life may conflict with Libra's more intellectual attitude. Both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and Aries' desire to participate gives them great stories to share with the more cerebral Libra. Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. Both are initiators, but they really have to cooperate if they actually want to get anything done. Aries will appear to be the dominant friend because of their energy and forceful nature, but Libra is also leading from an intellectual standpoint. Both Signs like being in charge, but Aries gives orders through personal authority, while Libra charms others into doing things. It's important for both to understand compromise. Libra, able to see both sides of any argument, can compromise easily, while Aries may be unhappier about yielding. Libra may have to give in more often to their friend's wishes in order to keep the peace that they so cherish.The best aspect of the Aries-Libra friendship is the harmony resulting from the union of Venus and Mars. The balance between Self and Other represented by this polarity is a great learning experience for both friends. Each brings to the relationship what the other is missing, so theirs is a highly balanced friendship.

Answer 6

We're the opposite, my Husband is Libra and I'm Aries 23rd March and 7th October. We get on great, hardly ever argue, but I will keep my mouth shut when I should say something just to avert an argument that would have been forgotten about soon anyway. As for him, he can't make his mind up whether to argue or not, so by the time he's made his mind up he can't remember what the argument was going to be about.

Answer 7

Well I am an Aries and my partner is a Libra! We have been together for 13 years and it is at times hard work!!

We never agree on the same things........like housework. I believe in doing jobs together get jobs done then relax, he just wants to relax in mess - it is sooo irratating. Is very laid back and never wants to fight his corner, he would rather walk away and say not bothered than face the music. However on another note he can be really romantic and thoughtful......the amount of surprises he has done for me i.e. surprise b-day parties, organises baby-sitters to take us out! day-trips that are surprises as well. The librans definately want and like to please their partner. So really if you (as an aries) can learn to listen to the other side of the story and just occassionly give in, it makes for a more harmonies life. Good Luck.

Answer 8

I'm an Aries girl... I've dated a Libra. Never again. Unless you're not as independant as Aries are, then I think it's okay. For me, he was too needy and it turned me off. He always wanted my attention and reassurance and it was annoying. I would end up calling him out and he'd back off for awhile but always comes back. lol even thou he's like the perfect Libra bf, masculine voice and body, charming, respectful, big penis lmao just wasn't meant to be. Us Aries hate too much weakness in ppl i think.

Answer 9

I think it works better when the guy is Aries and the girl is Libra.
I do get along with Female and male Libras. I think it only works as friends but not as lovers lol.Just my experiences.

Answer 10

Sadgal, what is going on? The name you chose and the picture just breaks my heart. You have choices in every aspect of your life. You have the choice to get out of the relationshipo if the Libra bf is not making you happy.

You are an Aries so you could pull on that independence and fire that signifies your sign.