How would you feel if you were taking care of your husband or boyfriend when he was sick and he started crying because he felt he was being a burden on you?
2006-08-31 15:31:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Reassure him that he isn't a burdon. The marriage vows state in sickness and in health. That is what a spoiuse is supposed to do.
2006-08-31 19:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If some one is sick and is depending on you they just feel like they are a burden is because they cannot focus too good because they are sick. But a person who has love and companion does not mind talking care of their husband or boyfriend. That is what a person of good faith would do.
2006-08-31 23:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to take care of my husband one time and I mean doing alot for him. He felt this away. But, just let him know how much you love him and that is part of a relationship. Also, tell him he can pay you back one day. As, my husband had to do for me. Just keep letting him know how much you love him and he is not a burden. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-31 23:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by smiley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cared for my husband until he died last year at the age of 43..He constantly told me that I should leave him because I deserved a real man and he was sick and had to have his leg amputated above the knee. I would never have even thought of leaving him. He was never a burden to me..I loved him with my whole heart , soul, and being. The hardest part of the whole last 7 years that I cared for him was losing him and not being able to do a damn thing to save him..He died on our living room floor at 1am and my life just will never be the same...When you truly love someone.you must be prepared to face the hard times as well as the good..I would only wish that when I die..he will be waiting for me and we will be together forever..I don't think that God brings true love into our lives only to rip it out from under us..I think that love is forever...Just like the song..A million years from now I will be loving you still...I miss you my darling Chuck..oh, God how I still love you...
If you have love in your life hold on to it..It is a precious gift..
Stef In Va...
2006-08-31 23:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know thats kind of where i'm at right now my husband has diabetes and pancratitis and he's only 38 years old we have been married for going on 6 years and our first 6 months of marriage he was in a coma for 3 weeks i thought i was going to lose him i love him alot he treats me like no man has ever treated me and i would never feel like he was a burden to me i thank god for sending me a person like him.and i always think if i didn't have him my world would be so empty but he's not bed ridden but alot of times he's just too sick to do anything but i always stay by his side .but if you really love him stick by him . and think of it as if it was the other way around good luck .
2006-09-02 22:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by BIGL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really sick and was crying I would feel really bad for him, it's no fun to depend on someone else. I had to be on strict bed rest for about 3 months, and it was horrible to be dependent upon someone like that. If he has a simple cold or the flu, something not so serious, I would tell him to suck it up and quit being a p*ssy.
2006-08-31 23:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by bown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him i married him thru sickness and health!
and if he were a burden I would have done left...
I would feel sad that he would have thought that way. I would tell him i luv him much too!
y what would u do?
have a good night!
2006-08-31 23:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by woohooo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think much of it, been there done that, it's normal for anyone who is sick to break down at some point, it is overwhelming to be so out of it and not able to behave like yourself, men cry, it's a good thing, I wouldn't highlight it with them and point it out, no need to get them to stop opening up
2006-08-31 23:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel sorry that he felt that way, and I would tell him love is not a burden.
2006-08-31 23:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Betty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him your not being a burden to me , i love you and we take care of each other . so if u ever think ur being a burden to me , just remember thats why we are together to take care of each other...
2006-08-31 23:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by Debbie L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋