when you are in love its the best thing, but sex it self is a waste off time. I want 2 love some one and then have sex when im ready
2006-08-31 15:29:13 · 29 answers · asked by Oversix 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Sex and love have nothing what-so-ever to do with one another. Sex is sex, and love is love. Sex is only better when it is combined with deep love, because both things make you feel good, and thus you are getting a double dose of pleasure.
Ideally a relationship should always be viewed through the eyes of best of friends first, and favorite lovers second. Unfortunately most people believe it should be the other way around, and are thus far less tolerant and/or forgiving, than they would be of a best friend. For friendship is the binding and enduring factor in a loving relationship, but when sex is placed before it in importance, it weakens the friendship, and thus the relationship.
2006-08-31 17:17:11 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decision is based upon your own personal feelings. Some people feel a lot for a person and might think it is possible they are in love, but just sometimes, sex will help make your final decision. What if you like or love someone, but not one thing goes right behind the closed door, then what?
2006-08-31 15:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Le' Chef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2006-08-31 15:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by ANGELa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most of the time you're right....sex when you're in a committed loving relationship is the best and should be the goal.
However, there are times in a mature adults life when sex for it's own sake is fantastic.
2006-08-31 15:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex its self is not a waste of time. I agree with you but sometimes one night stands are better. Just my opinion.
2006-08-31 15:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice principle in life. WAY TO GO! Love should come first before sex because it is only in LOVE that sex becomes truly meaningful.
2006-08-31 15:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Soul Sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed
2006-08-31 15:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's The Name Of The Game, Beware Men
2006-08-31 15:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by ^ _ ^ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is a bonus of love. i dont feel that sex is a way to show love. id take love over sex any day. im with you on this one 100%.
2006-08-31 15:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by §eeker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statement sounds good to me. If you are looking for perfection, that is. Then perfection itself, not a thing that exists in the real world I dont think.
Happy medium it is then, dont close the mind off to things which could still surprise you.
2006-08-31 23:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Dickie Farquar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋